2006-07-06 06:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not at all...we all have things we need to work on. id rather u be honest and tell me so i can work on it...then to say u love me then be wit some other chic because of the few things i did that u dont like.
2006-07-06 06:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by MsNic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No!
Love goes deeper than our general behavior. It's eternal!
We sometimes react to situations instinctively or because of jealousy or some other human feeling. These things pass.
As humans, we will mess up!
Nonetheless, our 'ways' are not always very sweet and loving,
though we do love you!
2006-07-06 06:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by FROGGY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...yes. You could word that comment a little better. I love you but I don't like your ways is a little harsh. I could totally see arguing with my husband over that comment.
A better way to put that is...I don't agree with some of your ways but it doesn't make me love you any less! lol that's better!
2006-07-06 06:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by s_sill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have such a crazy view of what loves is now days. True...who am I to question people's perception of love, but I think it is a term too loosely used. And think about how many people we love (we meaning society). I have a million friends who have loved so many different guys. Love is such a strong and meaningful word that I feel like it should be reserved for one person...and this is the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. It annoys the hell out of me to see people my age saying "I love you" but the guy or girl has such a wandering eye (or cheats even) and has no plans of staying long term with this person they are telling they love. I have had many guys tell me they love me...and the majority of them aren't around today. There are going to be things about your partner that you do not like or that annoy you. These things that you don't like, depending upon what they are, might want to make you stop and question if you really do love the person and even want to be in a relationship with them. If the person you are with is a drunken drug addict crack whore, and you don't like that and it hurts you and puts a damper on your relationship....then why are you with them? My ex boyfriend hated it when we would go to a mexican resturaunt and I would break the chips in half and leave the remaining piece in the basket. haha........but thats like not a big deal and I am human and humans are going to annoy each other over stupid things. If you love someone, you obviously have to accept their flaws. It's pointless to tell someone you love them and then try to change them. If you love a person, you don't want to change them, but rather accept them for all that they are. I hate it when girls don't like things in their boyfriends such as drinking habits, the language they use when speaking to them, and the way he treats her badly around his friends. Most girls think they can change their guy and be in love with them. If you do this, then you are desperate for love and not really in love. You can't change people....people never change. You are who you are, and your partner is who they are. If you are bothered a lot by your partner's "ways" then I suggest you leave now because before you know it you'll be growing old with a person you can't stand. I know I'm a good person in general but I do know I have silly flaws. I don't know about your girl and the things you don't like about her, but knowing myself, if a guy told me that.... I would tell him to go his own way if he didn't like my ways....b/c I like my ways and I don't think they hurtin' anyone :)
2006-07-06 06:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think my feelings might be a little hurt. By no means do I think thath my boyfriend loves everything about me, and vissa versa. But I don't think people necessarily want to hear about it.
2006-07-06 06:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Baby,everyone has certain things they don't like about a person.So get over it.
2006-07-06 06:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not at all .................... you can still love some one but you dont have to like their ways in other words you can still love some one and not like the things they do or how they treat you ect.
2006-07-06 09:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no baby i wouldn't be offended.
2006-07-06 06:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-07-06 06:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by kiddie323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not at all
2006-07-06 06:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋