Family & Relationships - 3 July 2006

2006-07-03 19:53:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-03 19:53:03 · 9 answers · asked by steven s 1 in Singles & Dating

My 'close friend' wants to destroy my good reputation. She records our conversations and use the pause button to make it seems as if I said something bad about me or someone else.

After editing, she plays it to my teachers, my friends, their parents, my parents, even people I don't even know. Now, she is trying to copy my voice.
She saves the recording bcos she wants to blackmail me when I bcome successful.( she said this)
I do not have a recorder and don't really wanna go to her level.

She has no shame, extremely convincing and blames me every time I confronted her.
She is broke and wants me to be broke as well ( her bestfriend told me this confession).
I let her trample me bcos of pity. She is not pretty at all, broke, unloved by her family. Help me please. I am brave enough to go against her but should I?

2006-07-03 19:52:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i just figured out that i am THE rebound guy... every relationship i have had in the past three years has been me picking someone up, dusting them off and giving them to someone else... i don't know how to break this habit... i love fixing things... the funny thing is that i just realized that what has happened is that i end up playing the role the women were playing in their previous relationships... well, here's your chance, blast me.... tell me what you think.

2006-07-03 19:51:20 · 5 answers · asked by nimkiw 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-03 19:51:09 · 2 answers · asked by steven s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-03 19:50:58 · 15 answers · asked by Ne 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-03 19:49:57 · 14 answers · asked by MrG 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are in full agreement for our divorce we actually are better freinds now after 20 years. We don't want to have a costly divorce so we would like to take care of matters on our own.We have a 7 year old and 13 year old. We both agree on making up a form stating he will pay ex-amount of money per month for child support then have it notorized. Can this be done?

2006-07-03 19:48:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-03 19:46:53 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I was married threw the cathlic church and you can't get a divorce or can you? Please help Sandra68

2006-07-03 19:46:26 · 10 answers · asked by Sandra68 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 sons with birthdays 6 days apart. They both have the same gift (go karts) coming from me. Is it right for me to give the oldest his gift on his birthday and not give my youngest his until his birthday? How will that make the youngest feel?

2006-07-03 19:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-03 19:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by browny 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi there. My ex broke up with me 5 - 6 months ago after 2 years. But since then she has been mean to me. On MSN she would call me a w*nk$r, or change her MSN pic to something where she is cuddling a guy. She'd put pics on her MSN space of guys kissing her cos she know I would look and the description of one of those pics says "My holiday fling", this was whilst we were going out. We met up about a month ago so I could get closure but she was telling me how she has slept with these guys, and has a f*ck buddy. Also she rung me up about a week ago saying "Is this book yours" I said "I got it for you" she said "I'll bin it then" and laughed, just said "Goodbye". Weird or what. I do not make any kind of contact with her, try and move on even though it is so hard. I have been told by many girls that I am a decent and nice guy, don't take women for granted or use them. My ex is 19. Sorry for the long message.

2006-07-03 19:43:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend & me have been together for over a year. We openly profess our love for one another & we are best friends. This past Winter we had a serious falling out period. As a result we weren't together at all for 2.5 months. It all built up because of poor communication between us. We're both very aware of how sensitive we can be to any criticism, so often times small things that should be discussed weren't. As a result they got bigger & eventually I reached the point where I just let it all out & ended up breaking up with her. During the 2.5 months apart both of us were miserable. We've since reunited & we're as happy as we've ever been. We learned a valuable lesson & I arranged for us to go to couples counseling to help our communication so the same thing doesn't happen again. But it seems she can't let go of the fact that I broke up with her so abruptly. After 2 great months back together she is still sometimes depressed & insecure. How much mourning time is "normal"?

2006-07-03 19:42:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-03 19:42:35 · 3 answers · asked by kaziind 2 in Singles & Dating

My so called brother was like i know this and i know that. He is all like i know the square root of like 25 is 5. He is one hell of a damn *****. I can't believe him. He kept saying shut the **** up you damned *****. I told him **** you go to hell you ******* ***** burn there too, you asshole. Ok So why do they act like they know everything?

2006-07-03 19:42:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when you are seeing a man and they..............
what would make them keep a 1 or 2 week stretch in between each time you spend time with them? for example you spend the whole day with them and they stay the night with you but then they dont ask you out again for like a week, but when he's with you he pours his heart out to you like he loves you so much, but then hes not with you most of the time. Does that mean he does'nt really like you that much?

2006-07-03 19:41:42 · 13 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you move on when someone just doesnt want you anymore?

2006-07-03 19:41:37 · 15 answers · asked by surfergirl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

here's the deal my son barely ever gets to see his real father because he is a drug addict and an alcholic not to mention his real father never even asks to see him. I feel my son is traumatized because of this and the fact that he watched his dad abuse me. So now in september i'm getting married to a wonderful man, he doesn't have any children of his own,but he takes very good care of my son. and I don't know how to get my son to listen to him!!!

2006-07-03 19:40:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when your spouse dies, you remarrie, and your new spouse dies.then you die. who do you go to be with?

2006-07-03 19:40:55 · 14 answers · asked by Daisy mae 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out a few days ago that my wife was cheating on me. A couple of months ago, after 4 good years, I realized she was having issues with our marriage, but I was unable to get her to open up about them. She began going out with her new girlfriends all the time and staying out very late and eventually not calling to check in at any time. I confronted her and she said she needed some time and space to figure herself out and to figure us out and she went to stay at a friend's. At this point she almost cut off all communication. I had suspicions and started poking around and discovered she was cheating on me. It appears that had only been going on for a couple of weeks, but could have been longer. I justifiably lost it, screamed at her for an hour on the phone and told her I was filing for divorce. Now that I've cooled off I want to make sure I have no regrets. She has been remourseful but hasn't asked to come back or for my forgiveness. Should I take it slow? What should I do? thanks

2006-07-03 19:40:25 · 20 answers · asked by MrS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this is what is happening,i found out that someone in my family is quietly having a divorce,now i love these people,but something is going to happen.this lady that i will call ''sara'' and this man i will call ''jack'' have been married for a few years now,maybe 10 or so,''sara'' now wants a divorce from ''jack'',by blood im related to "sara".but this "jack" is a very good man/dad/husband/all of the above,now he takes care of the kids,very well,he takes them places,loves them,and they love him back very much,he never gets drunk,he is very patient,very loving,he never does drugs,in simple terms"jack" is the perfect man,whenever "sara" asks if "jack" can go get her something,even if he has to go threw alot to get it for her,he does it in a heartbeat,with out a second thought,"sara", on the other hand does get a little drunk,she is sometimes 'mean',rude,obnoxious if you will,she hasnt really grown up,she still goes out,gets drunk,parties,goes to clubs while "jack" is back at the house

2006-07-03 19:39:56 · 74 answers · asked by Beyond_The_LAKE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-03 19:38:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am so lost and what would you do if you were me..I like her very much?

2006-07-03 19:37:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy...but we've been friends for like 8 years and when i'm with him i feel like we're the only two people there...we both just go into our own little world and have our own conversation and everything...my frind asked him that if he liked me and he said yes...but i don't know what to do should i tell him how i feel or just let it go because we're FRIENDS?

2006-07-03 19:37:33 · 11 answers · asked by disusi 1 in Singles & Dating

what would make them keep a 1 or 2 week stretch in between each time you spend time with them? for example you spend the whole day with them and they stay the night with you but then they dont ask you out again for like a week, but when he's with you he pours his heart out to you like he loves you so much, but then hes not with you most of the time. Does that mean he does'nt really like you that much?

2006-07-03 19:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Singles & Dating

hubby says he likes to have oral sex and go down on me but he doesnt do it often how do i get him to do it more

2006-07-03 19:36:30 · 8 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need direction. I need to know about grants or help for people in my situation

2006-07-03 19:35:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just would to like to have an idea of how many men does average woman in her thirties has to date before settling down.

2006-07-03 19:35:30 · 4 answers · asked by SweetBrunette 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-03 19:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by kaziind 2 in Family