2006-07-03 19:49:57 · 14 answers · asked by MrG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does your "friend" have such an arrangement? Is it possible for women to love two people at the same time and remain "happily married?"
2006-07-03 19:52:06 · update #1
CHEATIN' BROAD! I HOPE HE FINDS OUT!
2006-07-03 19:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a tricky question. My answer to that is yes. However, my husband and I have been separated for three years (he is fighting me on issues in the divorce) and in December of last year, I met a man who has become very special to me and my kids and we are beginning a life with this man. So people think that I am a cheating wife but I don't think I am because while I was still living with my husband, and for the first 2 years and 10 months of our separation, I remained faithful and never went out on a date.
But in the aspect of someone who is still "married" and not separated and say they love their husband, I don't think it's right. If you truly love your husband, there should be no reason to have anyone else except platonic friends and your family in your life.
But that's just my opinion.
2006-07-03 22:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible to love two people at the same time. But can one be happy in their marriage? I believe one of the reasons for going outside the marriage is due to unhappiness; so then how can this individual be happy?
2006-07-04 01:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can love two people at the same time and stay happily married. i have a husband and was in love with another man but i loved my husband more so i stayed faithful to my husband.
2006-07-03 19:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by person 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if a woman loved 2 people the male instinct is to be jealous wheather they admit it or not and as soon as she starts thinking about the number 2 while she is loving number 1 its going to get not good and there is the whole they won't like each other and they will fight and they express thier disslikes about each other to the woman which will only cause her emotional hardship.... i think they put that whole forsaking all others clause in marital vows for a reason
2006-07-03 19:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can love two men at one time for different reasons however your going to want one more then the other. I say find out who you want to be with because your hurting your self and those two men
2006-07-10 15:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a boyfriend and I havent cheated on him and if we were married I still wouldnt cheat on him. You fall in love by chance not by choice and you fall out of love by choice not chance
2006-07-03 20:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Luvley27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not worther because of if you are married is good for you to think of what you want before changing your voeles so you decided to be inthe marriage situation so stop being in two relationship because it very hard to deal with two people at the same time.so its to choose with one you want?
2006-07-03 20:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave the person you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
2006-07-03 19:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE A HUSBAND BUT NO BOYFRIEND. I GUESS IT JUST NOT IN ME TO TURN TO SOMEONE ELSE EVEN IF WE HAVE HAD A TERRIBLE FIGHT. I TAKE MY VOWS TO MY HUSBAND VERY SERIOUSLY EVEN BEFORE WE WERE MARRIED I DIDNT CHEAT OR THINK ABOUT CHEATING
2006-07-03 20:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't. I wouldn't disrespect my husband like that. If you can't be faithful then why be married.
2006-07-03 20:02:02 · answer #11 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋