Family & Relationships - 3 July 2006

I have been super-cool with this guy for a few months. We are both very attracted to each other but because we are both in a "situation" we've never done anything. I really don't want to lose the friendship; i care a lot about him but I can't stop thinking about sleeping with him. To me sex changes everything but others say go for it. He says he'll be my friend either way but I don't know what to do. I am very confused. Help!!!

2006-07-03 18:47:55 · 21 answers · asked by decembersweetgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Do u enjoy being married??? and how long have u been married

2006-07-03 18:47:29 · 13 answers · asked by steveangela1 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to flirt with a married man, that is gross. I don't want to flat out ask if they are married because that is painfully embarrassing. Shoot, how will I ever find out, wait, don't tell me- strike up a conversation. I'm shy, that's a fact.

2006-07-03 18:45:21 · 8 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

A close friend of mine is moving away, but I've had a crush on her for a long time. We talked about it and I'm trying to get over her, and now I think I'm falling for her best friend, who I'm sure likes another guy. Should I tell her anyway?

2006-07-03 18:45:19 · 15 answers · asked by rumilb 4 in Singles & Dating

THIS IS THE SECOND WEEKEND IN A ROW HE HAS BEEN GONE, OUT OF REACH. LAST WEEKEND IT WAS TO HIS PARENTS, WHOM HE HAS TURNED AGAINST ME OVER THE LAST 3 1/2 YEARS, WITH HIS LIES ABOUT "THING'S I SUPPOSEDLY DONE" TO CAUSE THE FIGHT. HE SAY'S HE LOVE'S ME, YET HIS PARENTS WOULDN'T AWNSER MY CALL'S CAUSE THEY ARE ANGRY AT ME ? HE ALWAY'S CLAIMS HE HAS SMOOTHED THING'S OVER WITH THEM, ENOUGH THAT EVERY ON EWILL SURVIVE A DINNER, THEN I DONT TALK TO THEM FOR ANOTHER SIX MONTH'S OR SO, THIS TIME THEY CLAIM NOT TO HAVE HEARD FROM HIM SINCE LAST WEEK, BUT IT WOULD NOT BE UNLIKE THEM TO BE LYING FOR HIM, OR UNLIKE HIM TO NOT BE DONING HIS OWN THING. THE BAD THING IS, HE IS IN THE COUNTRY FOR A R.&R. VISIT ONLY, HE HAS TO GO BACK TO IRAQ IN A CPLE OF WEEK'S FOR AT LEAST ANOTHER 2 MONTH'S, HE HAS FOUND ONE REASON OR ANOTHER TO FIGHT EVERY TIME HE HAS GOTTEN TO COME HOME. I LOVE HIM, I DON'T WANNA DIVORCE BUT WHAT DO I DO WITH A RELATIONSHIP THAT I CAN'T ACCESS ?

2006-07-03 18:44:51 · 8 answers · asked by SilkStorm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like roughneck guys who are totally wrong 4 me but they're hott. )

what could possible have scarred me so badly in my childhood that i go 4 this kind of guy?

2006-07-03 18:44:35 · 5 answers · asked by monkey-mama! 1 in Singles & Dating

you were always a good person... and the whole family loves you...but then you had this strange symptoms.. you cough and blood comes out of you... you went in to a doctor alone... and founds out you had a luekemia... how wil you face the problem?? how will your family accept your fate? will you tell them? and how will you?

2006-07-03 18:44:05 · 9 answers · asked by ivy_jeanne_x1 1 in Family

2006-07-03 18:43:44 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom drives me insane and I don't exactly care about her much. She keeps telling me and my dad how she's going to be leaving soon to her sister's or a woman's shelter but she never does. I would really love it if she left like she keeps saying she's going to do but never does. I'm happier without her around... I don't know why she stays... she knows she's not wanted here.

Not really nice, I know... but my life is always nicer when she isn't around.

2006-07-03 18:43:40 · 16 answers · asked by rlauxter 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-03 18:42:44 · 12 answers · asked by Brad 2 in Singles & Dating

For most of my life I've had the blessing and privilege of liking and getting along with all my relatives, and thought that this moment would never come. But in the past few years, my cousin has turned into such a degenerate. He disgusts me and I've lost all respect for him. He's promiscuous, he won't keep a steady job, he makes critically terrible life and financial decisions, binge drinks, and he's converted to atheism which may explain a lot, or vice-versa. He won't accept family or professional help, and what's the worst thing of all, he's PROUD of all that. Grow up, you're 25 years old! Given that he's had a stable childhood and upbringing with parents that set great examples (his siblings turned out excellent) and that he's capable of being smart, he has absolutely no excuse and doesn't deserve any sympathy.WHY DOES HE HAVE TO BE MY RELATIVE?I don't feel comfortable standing up to him &upbraiding him in front of my family, but he's been spoken to several times by other relatives.

2006-07-03 18:42:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hi iam 23 and very confused in life,iam working in order to support my family but really in life iwant to achieve somethinh i love teaching but cannot complete my studies because i need to support my family iam very desperate and want to reach my aim but i can't be selfish eventhough i continue working i know i can reach nowhere in next 10 years but my family is also important

2006-07-03 18:42:19 · 5 answers · asked by mahek 1 in Friends

im 21 and would like a nice girl to talk to toniite.

2006-07-03 18:42:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey! is it hard to forget first love or one can get away with those thoughts once the person is married???Or do the comparisons linger on????

2006-07-03 18:41:17 · 6 answers · asked by aarzooji a 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-03 18:40:58 · 29 answers · asked by Some 1 3 in Singles & Dating

We been talking for a month now and we just met. He wanted to see me badly and I didn't want to see him. He didn't know I didn't want to see him. He nice on the phone and he did hurt me once. I forgave him and started back talking to him. When we finally met he barly looked at me. Then when we talked on the phone after we saw each other he said I'm cute. Then he turned around and said I would look cuter without my glasses, I wasn't matching, and he thought my hair was longer. My glasses are small and it can't get no smaller. What should I do with him, Stop talking to him or keep talking to him? I need help and he hurted me.

2006-07-03 18:40:48 · 11 answers · asked by roseL03 2 in Friends

2006-07-03 18:40:22 · 6 answers · asked by Danielle U 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-03 18:38:53 · 20 answers · asked by angie e 1 in Friends

I've recently just met this guy and he asked me out. I don't know anything in deep about him. i don't know about his family,friends,life,etc. He told me he use to be a player but that was a long time ago. and he also said he havn't been dating for 6 months cuz he's too busy with his work. is he a player or not? or are there anything i should do to find out? Thanks for helping me!

2006-07-03 18:38:31 · 19 answers · asked by flower_boom 1 in Singles & Dating

she does good email is intelligent and very well informed has not asked for money and insists upon trust...i am planning a trip to russia soon...she has not asked about visa and plane ticket funds which so many other russians have asked for...all in all i trust her but i can be a fool at times ...so?

2006-07-03 18:37:52 · 16 answers · asked by cvw666 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-03 18:37:46 · 19 answers · asked by good_4chen 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 42 divorced 8 yrs I have 4 children ages 11-17 I have a great job as a RN in a truama ER make good money own my own home. I go to the YMCA 4 to 5 days a week dont smoke.drink only socially. Three of my children are adopted and of a different race than myself I am caucasion I know this isnt for everyone so I am always very upfront about my kids with anyone I meet. I have tried the online personals with a little success but havent found anyone for the long term, which is really what I want. I am attractive but very shy and quiet I have many friends at work but most are either much younger or married. I know I look good for my age but I have zero self esteem always thinking I look fat etc... critical of myself. I try to be positive but after months of not meeting anyone I blame myself,.what can I do to increase my chances of meeting someone decent w/o having to become this outgoing phony person.At times the thought of another first date is so overwhelming I would rather not go.

2006-07-03 18:36:57 · 10 answers · asked by cutenjnurse2003 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep on fighting with my mom, we never been freinds like other girls, she wants me to do everything her way even when she's wrong and every time i i ask her to give me her openion in an issue with a freind it ends up i don't talk with my freind because of the bad decesion from mam.. how can i solve this problem ? i can't stand my mom any more

2006-07-03 18:36:49 · 4 answers · asked by Some 1 3 in Family

Im very curious to know this. being 14 myself am wondering how far do us girls go? Am i going to far? Or am i just prude? I know saving sex till marriage is the right thing and what im planing to do but, what are other girls doing?

2006-07-03 18:35:57 · 46 answers · asked by Alexa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-03 18:35:44 · 3 answers · asked by JALISCO 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-03 18:33:55 · 35 answers · asked by crrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i'd love to go out with that girl, but she has a boyfriend, but i saw them together, i am much bigger than him, and it looks like she is bored with him. they werent holding hands or anything, and they were barely talking. what should i do? i cant just ask her out can i?

2006-07-03 18:32:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i dont wanna go in there without anyexperence i need like some practice....... I know this is wierd lol... but is there like a household object you can practice on lol? PLEASE even if this is a stupid question... this will really be my first kiss i know its not her first kiss but it will be our first kiss together....

2006-07-03 18:31:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His 24 yr old daughter stood outside his bedroom door and offered to call the police on me to have me arrested and removed from his house because we were having an argument over his drinking and health problems. She picks up the phone and listens in while we are talking and even occasionally buts into the conversation.l
He is 55 and I am 43 years old. I think we are a little old to be listening in to our conversations.
His grandson came into the bedroom while we were being intimate and he had to quickly pull the sheets up, so we were not caught having sex. He is 6 years old
He walks in and out at will because there is no lock.
The daughter invites his x wife over to visit and I know its just to make me angry. Its not her mother. She invites her over to create a rif between me and her dad and she actually shows up.
Any suggestions. Truthful, honesty would be appreciated. No smart remarks please.

2006-07-03 18:31:20 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Friends

2006-07-03 18:30:51 · 22 answers · asked by friend4y\u 1 in Friends