We been talking for a month now and we just met. He wanted to see me badly and I didn't want to see him. He didn't know I didn't want to see him. He nice on the phone and he did hurt me once. I forgave him and started back talking to him. When we finally met he barly looked at me. Then when we talked on the phone after we saw each other he said I'm cute. Then he turned around and said I would look cuter without my glasses, I wasn't matching, and he thought my hair was longer. My glasses are small and it can't get no smaller. What should I do with him, Stop talking to him or keep talking to him? I need help and he hurted me.
2006-07-03 18:40:48 · 11 answers · asked by roseL03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This guy lied on me and talked about me. I have a friend name Keisha and he told me to tell her he don't want to talk to her anymore. I didn't tell her cause that's his job. Then he called me up fussing at me telling me why I tell Keisha he didn't want to talk to her. I didn't tell Keisha cause I knew it wasn't right. Then I figured he lied on me trying to break Keisha and I friendship. I'm a nice person and I tells the truth.
2006-07-04 08:49:06 · update #1
you did a really good job hun! you dont need to do his dirty work for him, let him handle it. if you did it know it would have been gossip, and people dont like a snitcher. the next thing you need to do is drop this guy ASAP! he is only using you and playing with you. if the nicest thing he could have said to you was that you needed to loose the glasses, match, and cut your hair, then he REALLY dosen't know how to treat a lady...and why would you want someone who can't treat you?? just drop him easily and back away. you will surely find someone better than that :D
2006-07-04 14:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by *BeTtY* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey gal... You're havin a similar problem like the one i had with a guy... Trust me on this... He'd probably propose to you in some days and if you accept it, you're TOAST... You'll never want to talk to that guy anymore...
I suggest that you stop talking to him.. Its better if you found yourself more trust worthy guy (be it jus a friend or your b/f)... These relationships which start over a telephone conversation can not be trusted..
Your first meeting itself should be a direct conversation with eye to eye contact...
That's the best i can give you and its out of my own experience...
2006-07-04 01:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you have issues with this young man, and that may
be where the problem is, i would really take time to find out how
you really feel about him. and if hurt you before then you need
to see if that where you want to go again. so just take it slow
this time around, it will work it self out.
2006-07-04 01:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him fast! Just stop, if he hurt you now when he barely knows you, he wont hold back when he knows you better. Save your heart for someone who will do everything in his power to keep it from pain.
2006-07-04 01:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by bickeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him.If He's already saying negative stuff about you.That's a sign it's not going to work out..
2006-07-04 01:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by lil-bit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all happened in a month??!! GGod the drama queens these days just keep getting worse and worse...
2006-07-04 01:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by dotbrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did he HURT you? It is very important. Describe it and I'' be back with a better answer.
2006-07-04 01:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut before u'r bones are found by a dog in the park
2006-07-04 01:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by jhvesterjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are allowing him to manipulate you. Why give in to everything he says? you never say if you liked him, only his reaction to you and how he would like to change you.
Have respect for yourself, others will have to follow.
2006-07-04 01:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by YedidNefesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like this and that........goodbye! It's that easy. There IS someone out there that will like you for you, just the way you are.
2006-07-04 01:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋