what would make them keep a 1 or 2 week stretch in between each time you spend time with them? for example you spend the whole day with them and they stay the night with you but then they dont ask you out again for like a week, but when he's with you he pours his heart out to you like he loves you so much, but then hes not with you most of the time. Does that mean he does'nt really like you that much?
2006-07-03 19:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by miranda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would really depend on the man. Right from the start, I would assume I wasn't the only person he was seeing. If he's a good, decent person though, there really could be a number of things. He could be busy with work, if he had to go out of town for business. If he has a family (ex-wife and kids) maybe he has open visitation with his children. Some people really like being by themselves, or stressed out. Maybe you should discuss this issue with him, and voice your concerns. If it continues like this, you should ask yourself if it's ok with you to have a relationship like that. Personally (like most women, I assume) I don't think I could handle that. I would want someone around quite a bit more. On the other hand, I know women who are married to truck drivers and are content seeing their husbands on the weekends.
Best of Luck! Happy 4th! :)
2006-07-03 19:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by justagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a booty call to me. Sorry. But that's what I thought of. If you only spend a day at a time with him and then he's gone, he probably has one or more others. What happens when you spend time together and don't have sex? Try that out on him, then see if he comes back. If a couple of weeks go by and he stops coming around, you know what that means. Good luck!
2006-07-04 02:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by No one of consequence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if he really liked you he would be with you plenty of time during the week, but if you say that he pours he's heart out everytime he is with you and then doesn't spend much time with you during the week...then everytime he "pours his heart out" is just so he can have you whenever he wants otherwise he WOULD spend more time with you or at least talk on the phone with you like almost everyday for hours at a time...
2006-07-04 02:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by disusi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to upset you, but he isn't really into you. He is all about something or someone else. If he really wanted to devote himself to you, he would be with you majority of the time. He would tell you where he is and when he is coming back. I have been married for going on 6 years. I remember before I met her, I was doing the same things. It once you meet the one, you fall for her and no one else matters. Move on, and don't look back. Good luck, and I'm sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear.
2006-07-04 02:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by rhicks1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it sounds like he's using you for a booty call. Next time he calls you tell him your busy. He's just a playa. Move on
2006-07-04 02:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means that you have fallen in love and he loves having sex. You want to be with him all the time and he wants to be with you when he need you.
2006-07-04 02:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by D C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player and he knows that you will be there for him when he wants a booty call. He doesn't respect you all that much.
2006-07-04 02:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has more important things to do...so I would say he doesn't like you that much. my friend has the same problem & it has been going on over a year...dump him now
2006-07-04 02:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by MissDanielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a wife or he is dating others. If he is in to you he would be be with you more often. His thoughts are elsewhere.
2006-07-04 02:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by john f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably using you.
2006-07-04 02:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by cynthia_0516 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋