i just figured out that i am THE rebound guy... every relationship i have had in the past three years has been me picking someone up, dusting them off and giving them to someone else... i don't know how to break this habit... i love fixing things... the funny thing is that i just realized that what has happened is that i end up playing the role the women were playing in their previous relationships... well, here's your chance, blast me.... tell me what you think.
2006-07-03 19:51:20 · 5 answers · asked by nimkiw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're awesome to do this and unselfish, but you must now take into consideration your own heart and stop doing it. You have to break the habit by realizing that you are worth someone for yourself and other people can find their own loves for once. Pick them up, brush them off, but don't get involved with them until weeks have passed and both of you are certain a relationship is wanted. Don't let rebounds get you down--we all go thru it and we all break the habit some way or another. You can't be every woman's hero, but it's nice that you've tried to be. Be a hero for yourself now.
2006-07-03 19:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the next girl if she has recently broken up with anyone. You know the drill. You sound like you catch feelings to quick. Take your time and just don't date one girl. That is why it is called dating. Open your horizons and play the field for a while. There is that special someone for everybody. Slow down, you will find the right girl in time. Look out for numero uno, and that is you. Good luck in your next RELATIONSHIPS.
2006-07-04 02:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nice guy doesn't always have to finish last... though he does have to learn some restraint. You keep going for girls who've been hurt and ooze with saddness. That is one thing that should probably change. If you feel attracted to a girl, wait. Be her friend and date around while she pulls herself together. You'll know when she's ready when she stops comparing you to him, and starts focusing on you. My guess is your probably young... don't settle down with anyone yet. You've got years ahead for that. Make as many girl friends as you can, date around, and when the perfect girls comes around you'll just know. You'll feel it in the way she looks at you, the way she kisses you, and the way that you're the only one on her mind.
2006-07-04 03:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly you just have not found the one yet. but think about it this way you have helped someone through something painful and they will always remember and thank you for that. I am the "if you had male parts you would make a great guy friend friend." I have just not found the one that sees past that. You will find her she is out there. There is nothing wrong with you!
2006-07-04 03:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by serendipityntx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep on trying , there nothing wrong with you
2006-07-04 02:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by az2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋