Hi there. My ex broke up with me 5 - 6 months ago after 2 years. But since then she has been mean to me. On MSN she would call me a w*nk$r, or change her MSN pic to something where she is cuddling a guy. She'd put pics on her MSN space of guys kissing her cos she know I would look and the description of one of those pics says "My holiday fling", this was whilst we were going out. We met up about a month ago so I could get closure but she was telling me how she has slept with these guys, and has a f*ck buddy. Also she rung me up about a week ago saying "Is this book yours" I said "I got it for you" she said "I'll bin it then" and laughed, just said "Goodbye". Weird or what. I do not make any kind of contact with her, try and move on even though it is so hard. I have been told by many girls that I am a decent and nice guy, don't take women for granted or use them. My ex is 19. Sorry for the long message.
2006-07-03 19:43:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she doesn't want you but still enjoys the attention she gets from you. ignore her. maybe she will leave you alone.
2006-07-03 19:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by tamara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your question is what? This biotch is tormenting you and you keep running back for more like a f****** lap dog! Get a life dude. SHe's not a well woman and you keep playing into her path. Make a new plan Stan and get yourself free....as the song goes. Don't look back and other such good stuff.
CHeck out the following website. It will answer most of your questions better than I can
http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/
Your giving us "good guys" a bad name. We are good guys...not suckers waiting for the next woman to make our life a living hell. We'll help you all we can but you have to go at least 1/2 the way. CHeck out the website and take controil of your life.
Good luck
2006-07-04 02:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to quit looking her up or having anything to do with her. You are simply torturing yourself. Secondly, who cares what she is doing? She did you a favor. You should be glad a person that hateful let you go before she destroyed you. Get revenge..quit caring. I bet she will be all over you then.
2006-07-04 02:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kuuipo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds crazy. What you need to do it just cut her out of your life completely. Dont' check her websites, don't pick up the phone if she calls. If you don't have caller id and you pick up and it's her just say, "NO" and hang up. If you see her on the street don't even look at her. She'll get the idea.
2006-07-04 02:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. All your ex is doing is playing games with you to see how you respond. Sounds like she is the one who can't move on. Hope you do well and good luck.
2006-07-04 02:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by lisa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting her talk to you? Put her on ignore for your messengers. Delete her e-mails and change your phone number. Don't let yourself be the victim here.
And why is she doing this? Because she's totally psycho!!! And you are obviously better off.
2006-07-04 02:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because she knows that she did wrong and instead of being sad about it shes decided to be a b-----h about it don't worry about go find you a girl and do to her the same thing shes doing to you then you'll see her change good luck
2006-07-04 02:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by pumpkin6163 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause shes a crazy drama queen, dont ever go back to her, you will be miserable, put a restraining order on her if she keeps harrasing you.
2006-07-04 02:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Milton Egbert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude
don't waste your time for a rude girl like her
i know its really hard
but believe me, u will soon forget her
go and date someone else
2006-07-04 02:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by az2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. She is playing games with you and your falling into her trap. She is young and doesn't know what the meaning of love is right now.
2006-07-04 02:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if someones wandering around with a "PLEASE DONT KICK ME" sign around his neck......well you just HAVE to. You know what im saying? Ditch the B**CH and move on.
2006-07-04 05:23:41 · answer #11 · answered by Dopat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋