Family & Relationships - 20 June 2006

when i go to sleep i dream about someone raping me or someone else i have never met being and tyed to a car naked!! help me

2006-06-20 15:44:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seems like i have to have sex like every night and i am only 32,my fiance is 37,i would think men have a higher sex drive then a girl???

2006-06-20 15:44:42 · 7 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a college student who worked in a middle school for the past month. One student really bonded with me this past year and is going on to high school. Because of him, I want to become a teacher. What is a good book to give him?

2006-06-20 15:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by gark13 1 in Friends

i am 17 years old. i have a very busy schedule. before i got out of school for the summer. I had hard classes to study for, softball, bible club, nursing club, a job and a bf, also a best friend that needs help taking care of her baby. Most of this stuff i am doing is to better myself and to make up for all the time i spent being a total idiot. Now that school is out i have a 40 hr week job. And in most of my spare time i spend w/ my bf or softball team.anyways the question is, my parents act like they are pissed off at me b/c im not home 24/7 cleaning, cooking etc.believe me i do help out alot around the house. but it seemd like to me that they dont care if im working or doing something good for myself. they just want me home helping out.its not like there isnt someone else to do it i have a 14 year old sister. she doesnt do anything except smart mouthing my parents.what am i supposed to do? i have to have a job so i can get a car b4 i turn 18 and they want me out when i turn 18.help

2006-06-20 15:43:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my fiance said if i masterbate w/o him being there he considers this cheating.

2006-06-20 15:42:42 · 23 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been dating for over a year and i don't want to break up with him @ all that seems to be the last thing on my mind. i've made a few wrong turns in our relationship @ the beginning but i've learned from my mistakes... & have not done anything since. But the last time we broke up which was about a month ago i kind of had doubts on going back out with him because it seemed like he was always ashamed of dating me and told other girls he didn't know that he was single. So he would talk to these girls on the computer. but then i took him back because he swore to me that it wasn't going to happen again,, well i've been looking @ some things and noticed that on his other s/n that he blocked me on said single and free to mingle as i got on another s/n. He has also been telling people to message him on that name instead of his other name but i'm confused because he tells me that he doesn't talk to other girls and he's not ashamed of me... what do i do and believe ???

2006-06-20 15:41:48 · 11 answers · asked by ash6lei2a 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i ask this boy that i really like but i dont know if he likes me plz help

2006-06-20 15:40:54 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

would you think her as an easy lay? would u consider a relationship with a woman or marry a woman that dressed so provactively? Would u care if your wife or girlfriend dressed this way esp. around your friends? I dont dress this way because I think sexy is an attitude & state of mind how u carry yourself with dignity & respect. A beautiful woman can still be sexy without having to show it off like that.

2006-06-20 15:40:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-20 15:40:43 · 17 answers · asked by rinny s 1 in Singles & Dating

if im goin over there to meet this guy who likes me, is it bad to use your friend to see the guy

2006-06-20 15:38:08 · 6 answers · asked by Brandi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-20 15:37:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-20 15:37:21 · 17 answers · asked by mazungodemisipi 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend thats 20 years older than me, and I am attracted to him intimately. The prob is, he has a son my age. I dont understand why I feel this way about him!

2006-06-20 15:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by monkey69 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He called me and confessed his actions the day it happened and I do believe he is sorry...but I'm not sure sorry is enough. I know there was nothing wrong in our marriage to provoke anything like this but... I'm afraid his inability to control himself when he is drinking shows a serious level of instability. He has "on his own" acknowledged that he becomes very dumb when he drinks and has sworn that until he feels that he is truely able to be... well a man he will not be drinking outside of my presence. This happened six months ago and I still find myself crying uncontrollably at times... I do believe in second chances...but I can't seem to get past all of this. Will the pain ever stop? What will help? I'm very desperate for answers anything will help.

2006-06-20 15:36:58 · 14 answers · asked by Linda K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-20 15:36:06 · 6 answers · asked by aarestotle 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3.5 months and i have found that he is really pushy, controlling and mentally abusive. I have tried to let him go and the next day i had to get him back. it seems like all he wants is sex no matter how many time i say no. and he wont let me do any of the things i want or be who i want to be. is it all worth it if i feel that deeply and strongly for him?

2006-06-20 15:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by Jessye S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 17 years old. i have a very busy schedule. before i got out of school for the summer. I had hard classes to study for, softball, bible club, nursing club, a job and a bf, also a best friend that needs help taking care of her baby. Most of this stuff i am doing is to better myself and to make up for all the time i spent being a total idiot. Now that school is out i have a 40 hr week job. And in most of my spare time i spend w/ my bf or softball team.anyways the question is, my parents act like they are pissed off at me b/c im not home 24/7 cleaning, cooking etc.believe me i do help out alot around the house. but it seemd like to me that they dont care if im working or doing something good for myself. they just want me home helping out.its not like there isnt someone else to do it i have a 14 year old sister. she doesnt do anything except smart mouthing my parents.what am i supposed to do? i have to have a job so i can get a car b4 i turn 18 and they want me out when i turn 18.help

2006-06-20 15:32:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It's hard to me. I mean I like a lot of girls but I want to date this girl real bad. We met two month ago at the airport, I helped her with check in and all that stuff. We have talk a lot on the msn and I want to date her. She has a love interest for two and a half year but the boy sort of date her and then stop. She told me the boy is funny, athletic and blah blah blah.
I've never date a girl before. How am I suppose to do?
I asked her early today and she said her scadual is full after the exam and then she's leaving for camps and all that stuff.
What am I suppose to do?

2006-06-20 15:32:03 · 2 answers · asked by Hammer 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 40 year woman who is passionate, romantic, and love sex. However I am looking for a lifelong comiitted relationship (marriage) rather than some casual fling. I don't want to come across as a cold person, but how can I express my opinions and feelings to a guy and still appear ladylike? I'm not looking for a guy with a low drive but at the same time It seems like almost everyguy brings up sex and intimacy from the beginning to some extent. How do you tell a guy that you will be a good lover to your man but you don't give free samples?

2006-06-20 15:31:04 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

ok now i have this friend that i really trust but im curious as to know what sex is like. I want to try this with him because i feel safe with him. i feel that i would rather lose my virginity to a friend rather than losing it to sumone else and then getting played by that someone else cause that would cause me to feel so hurt. Is it a good idea to lose it to my friend.

2006-06-20 15:30:36 · 38 answers · asked by link it together 3 in Singles & Dating

I just met this guy the other day, and we have been texting for a while. But I want to know if he is a Christian and a virgin. Do I just ask and be straight up? Or what? How do I bring the topics up?

2006-06-20 15:30:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'M 26 AND MY MAN IS 21. We have been together for 2 years and have a child together. He has this "female"friend who continues to cause problems in our relationship. From sending him naked pics to calling our home leaving messages. He has told her in the past to stop calling but after about 1 week if that, he will start calling her. He claims it's to get meupset,but i know better than that. I went through so much dealing with this issue when I was carrying our child and it has not gotten better.But wait here's the twist he has only met this person one time. They only share phone conversations. He said at one time he was in love with her but his feeling have change. She has really become obssessed and refuses to leave him alone. I don't completely put the blame on this female he is definately also to blame.He claims he loves me and doesn't want to be without me. I have told him how I feel about this so called friend but he refuses to cut all contact with her. What's a girl to do???????

2006-06-20 15:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by sunshyn 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-20 15:29:47 · 6 answers · asked by kitkat 1 in Friends

I LOVE MY HUSBAND TO DEATH BUT HE NEEDS TO GET OUT AND MORE THAN WORK, EAT, SLEEP AND WATHC T.V.

2006-06-20 15:29:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-20 15:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by EL-OH-VE-E 1 in Family

My friend says a woman drives the man to cheat. I don't think so.

2006-06-20 15:27:07 · 31 answers · asked by lifeislove 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Its not like i dont put myself out there (not in the sluty way jus meaning i am social) is it wrong for me to be afraid of being alone?

2006-06-20 15:27:00 · 17 answers · asked by Tasedarainbow 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out that my boyfriend went to this party, that he repeatedly said he wasn't gonna go to. I confronted him, and he acted as if he did nothing wrong.

2006-06-20 15:25:07 · 16 answers · asked by LaTisha B 2 in Singles & Dating

OK we've been married 21 years and I've wanted out for at least the last 10, probably more. He knows this, and he knows it's because I found him at his girlfriends at 3:00 in the morning, although he says they were just friends. That was about10 years or more ago. I have gotten over it in most ways but haven't been in love with him since. How do I tell him that it is over and I'm leaving? What do I say? I don't want to be mean, I just can't stay anymore. I've tried my best and now I'm through. But I can't seem to find the right way to say it to him, without being mean. Any helpful ideas? I'm serious, without being mean and hurtful. Is there a way?

2006-06-20 15:25:07 · 19 answers · asked by josie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

And i mean all of them

2006-06-20 15:24:23 · 7 answers · asked by wilburcornish 2 in Other - Family & Relationships