my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3.5 months and i have found that he is really pushy, controlling and mentally abusive. I have tried to let him go and the next day i had to get him back. it seems like all he wants is sex no matter how many time i say no. and he wont let me do any of the things i want or be who i want to be. is it all worth it if i feel that deeply and strongly for him?
2006-06-20 15:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by Jessye S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Little sister, first of all don't ever forget that you are worthy of being treated with dignity and respect. This guy has controll issues and that often leads to physical abuse. You're ALREADY being mentally abused by this man.
My best friend was going through the same thing. He ended up murdering my best friend.
Don't let it happen to you. You've been with this guy 3.5 months...Don't let it be 3.5 months and 1 day longer. This man is dangerous. You need to leave him alone.
Every time you take him back its almost like you're asking to be treated like that. Put your foot down. Don't let this go any further.
You don't really love this man. You're in love with the idea of loving this man. Get out while you can. He's not for you. You deserve better than that. You're worthy. You're special and he can't see that. Get out of this abusive relationship before it's too late. You're young. You have the rest of your life.
Best of luck.
2006-06-21 07:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not worth it. Your feelings will pass. Dump him! You don't want to become one of those women who always go out with abusive guys and everyone wonders why.
2006-06-21 19:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not worth it. If all the stuff you mention didnt matter they you wouldn't be bringing it up. There are other guys out there with his good qualities and none of the bad.
2006-06-20 22:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by kg122673 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away while you can....NOW. There are a lot of other guys who will treat you like you deserve to be treated.
2006-06-20 22:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by apriljm76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just dumb you must be white cause a black person would of cut his a** an kick him out
2006-06-20 22:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lol4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋