I have a friend thats 20 years older than me, and I am attracted to him intimately. The prob is, he has a son my age. I dont understand why I feel this way about him!
2006-06-20 15:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by monkey69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I haven't dated this man, but I have slept with him! He makes me feel warm and comfortable, but yet I dont think he feels the same about me. It's weird, but yet we talk everyday. and we call each other pet names. I'm confused!
2006-06-20 15:52:57 · update #1
He makes you feel like a woman.
I dated a woman 16 years younger than I was. I was able to share experiences with her that wee incredible for both of us.
She was 21 and NEVER had a climax.
She hit several times the first time we made love. It was like she was re-born. It made ne feel better than I have ever felt in my life.
She had never been kissed head to toe, nor had she ever had more than 20 minutes of affection.
Some men are sooooo dumb about women.
A true gift from God, and they treat that gift as if it were a rash.
Go for the experience, forget the age difference. One day it may be reversed!
2006-06-21 02:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Nick R 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is by no means unique as there're many young females out there who much rather prefer the company of older men for their maturity.
They (women) often seek older men over their younger male counterparts due to the former having set goals for themselves whereas younger men are immature & playful.
It could be simply that your man WAS married at some point and with that comes commitment & responsibility.
Maybe it's security whether it's financial/ emotional that you're seeking and he offers that which is what draws you to him in the first place.
Although you mentioned that he has a son your age, that part kinda creeps me out!
But if your feelings for him are genuine... who's to say how you should lead your love life?
2006-06-20 15:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women, starting in their teens, are attracted to older men because (it has been proven scientifically) women mature at a faster rate then men, You may actually be on the same maturity level as him even though you are younger.
2006-06-20 15:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by mel_a_can 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have preferences. You just prefer older men, like how some people prefer blond hair or people who are unusually tall or thin. It's not a big deal, especially at twenty-five. Don't sweat it too much.
2006-06-20 15:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have fun I dated a man who i went to high school with his daughter she was 1 yr older than me. he loved me more than any man before or after( except 1 man )has. Good Luck.
2006-06-20 17:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy each other's company, and he gives you what you want, what's the problem? So, he has a son your age! No big deal. Enjoy each other!
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2006-06-20 19:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by amar s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He represents a father figure. You make him feel young again.
Both of you are filling a need in each other. It's common.
2006-06-20 16:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they tend to be more mature and put together than younger guys. They also have more direction and are accomplished, whereas younger guys are still working on it.
2006-06-20 15:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they tend to be more stable, and they've got their partying ways out of the way and focus now on important things.
2006-06-20 15:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by LissyLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋