Family & Relationships - 20 June 2006

She told me I was expecting too from her. But all I wanted her to do was to call back or at least talk to me. Also I kind of confused about her. She dumped her ex because he was really paying attention to her. So I'm pay attention to her and she acts if she didn't the attention from and instead she goes off talking to my friends. I'm really confused about this.
This problem goes deep and if you really want to help send me an email with your AIM SN and I send you mine togive you more details.

2006-06-20 16:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by Berties 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-20 16:20:27 · 10 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-20 16:18:19 · 25 answers · asked by armyjeff33 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf and I have been together for 3yrs I resently found out the he dont trust me and he makes all kinds of coments about me getting fat. I really love him but I want him to love me for who I am not what I look like. Someone please help me!

2006-06-20 16:18:00 · 18 answers · asked by Blue S 2 in Singles & Dating

who has given you her phone number?

2006-06-20 16:17:43 · 7 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Singles & Dating

My sister is going to Mexico to get Married in August. Is it ok to have a wedding shower or Jack and Jill for her when none of these people will be invited to a wedding.... Just wondering if I should start planning or not.... a little confused....Please help!!!

2006-06-20 16:16:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a really low sel-esteem, and everything negative that people say about me really has an impact in my life. It all started when I was younger and this guy told me I was ugly, from then on I get hurt very easily. My mother has always insulted me when we get into an arugment; she calls me so many things and they all hit me pretty hard even though she later apologizes and says that she did not mean that. How can I block this from me when all my life I have thought the worst about myself? This is really hard because I have even thought about doing the worst things to myself... yes it is stupid but every single word that she was said to me has really affected me in a negative way. I do not LIKE MYSELF, I feel uncomfortable with my appearance and everything about me. I need help but do not seek it, can someone please give me advice, PLEASE.

2006-06-20 16:15:56 · 17 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok...i'm going away on a business trip with this man that i've "liked" for a while now. he has no knowledge of my feelings, but i want to tell him how i feel on this trip. it seems soooo jr high to just say, "i like you a lot", but i don't know what to say. i'm newly divorced, and have been out of the game for 10 years. we're sharing a suite and will be there for an entire week. how do i let him know without sounding like a teenager? we are both grown adults. i don't know if he has any feelings for me though. he's given no indications that he does, but who knows? plus the other thing i'm worried about is seeing him at work from now on if i'm rejected. we work very closely, and there's no way of avoiding him. should i just say it, and if so, HOW? how can i tell if he has any feelings for me too? PLEASE help!!!!!!!

2006-06-20 16:15:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My EX keeps on telling people he walks with that I am his EX whenever he walks by me with someone or I walk by him...He even points..He always checks me out! We don't even speak to eachother. Why does he do that?

2006-06-20 16:14:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats the kinkyest thing you can do to please your man to make him fall in love?

2006-06-20 16:14:03 · 4 answers · asked by elimalang4life 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a gurl who is looking to be frenz wif ppl. U MUST BE 11-14 YEARS OLD. AND BE FROM NON ASIAN COUNTRYS. i am not being bias my teacher wants me to have pen-pals from that countrys.(i'm doing a project)pls email me and leave a message. thanks

2006-06-20 16:13:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

23/m/ny

2006-06-20 16:11:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello i am a mother ofa 10 week and 3 day old son and i am abused by my husband it all started before we got married he get drunk and would tell me he use to beat his first and 2nd wife but i still married thanking it be diffrert for me but i was wrong, first it was yelling, then he would tell me he would hit me he would say stuff like i was lucky he not hit me because he could really hurt me then the grabbing started he would grab me by the arm so hard it would leaves marks he would pin me to the wall so i could not move and yellthen one day he got so drung and grabed my arm telling me he was going hit me and i told him i was not scared of him so he told me i batter be hecause he could kill me then he pushed me so hard a almost fall i finel thongh he calm down so i went to bed he would come in and yell call me names then he set on the bad and puch me so hard i fell of the bed, then i got pranget we got in to it he was so drunk he grab my arms and puch in to the door and for the first time i was scared i though he was going hit me and all i could thank of was not to let him so i slaped him because i though he would hit my tummy and make me lose my baby then the same nigh he trow rock at me and he would hold his fist up and tell me he wish i would lose the baby but he never did touch me because he had is drug buddy over he told my husband if he wanted any drug he would not touch me so he stoped he finel calm down, then when i was 4 months prangent we got in to it he wanted money for the drugs and i wouldnot give it to him so he hit me 2 times on the arm telling me next time it be my face the he grabed a baseball bat and told if i not give him the money he hit me with it so i gave him the money then he lift but he come back with the stuff and telling me h was sorry he hit me he was crying he said it never happen again and i told him i for give him i belive he would not do it again but i was wrong because when i was 6 months prangent we had no money and no food because he took all the money for the drugs and you can't get food without money. finely we got a call telling us we could move in with my family so we could get my husband clean the day befor the move he was getting high on that stuff his lighter was out so he was useing a candle and i not want him doing them drugs so i blow out the candle and he slaped me in the face and all i did was go to bed telling my self it all stop when we get to texas but i was wrong he started telling me who i can and cn't talk to where i can and can't go he had to know where i was at ever min even when i went to the bathroom he would give me money and i have to tell him how much i spent, where and what i got finely on march 31 2006 i had my son he was so sweet but that only was for 2 weeks then the yelling started back he would yell at me at welmart where people could hear he would call me names he would tell me woman know nothing and men knew it all then on june 3 2006 we went to eat he got drunk he went 6 monthsno dranking so when he got drunk he got mean and started yelling at me we was on the side of the road walking he would tell me i was a bad mother the he grabed me so hard i though he pull my clothes off he let go of me we got behind this church and for some reason i can't remember why set down on the ground by then the yelling got worse my son started crying soi was feeding him but he was still in his stroller my husband we tell me he would not hit me he say he could go to jail if he did then he hit me so hard on the arm it turn purple it as the first time ever he lift a mark and again he told me he hit my face next time and i told himi was not scared so he started comeing to me with his fist up telling me i batter be scared. then he put his hands in my face i was so scared he would hit me again i could not look at him he then knid of man if you don't look it makes him worse finel he calm down, the 5 days ago i not fold up the baby diaper up so he slaped me . i always though it was from dranking and the drugs that maid him mean they was a part of it but then one day we got in to over the drugs it would be part of it, then i found out he don't have to be drunk to treat me bad because for a long time i did not see that he was treating me bad now i just hopping he will change because i don't want to leave him i love him but i want him to treat me right he a good father and sometimes he a good man just wish it was all the time

2006-06-20 16:10:56 · 46 answers · asked by amanda_ploof 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so yah im the girl who asked if it was wrong to cheat
damn carma catches up with yah...
ohk so my bf gets this text the other night from his friend who says that ive been talking to this guy, "toni" and ohk 1st you have to know that *toni* is friends with me and my bf. anyways...this person texts my boifriend and says ive been teling toni that he can hit it....i uhh..need help? like i told my bf that its a lie...but hello!? i only told him that bc i dont wna loose him...he's the best thing thats hapend to me this is a realy serious relationship too... wat wuld be the best thing to do? like..right now he believes me..but i dont kno, i cant help it...i just always find myself in situations that wuld get me into toruble like..cheating...i always say no, that i wont do it again...but i always end up doin it.i kno this is prolly the most stupid question any of yall have anwserd..but i seriously need advice from male and female..that dont kno me.im too embarasd to ask any of my friends.

2006-06-20 16:10:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to my cousin's wedding this saturday and I still don't have my dress. Where can I buy a cheap dress in chicago. I don't have a lot of cash.

2006-06-20 16:10:16 · 7 answers · asked by maya 4 in Weddings

hello i am a mother ofa 10 week and 3 day old son and i am abused by my husband it all started before we got married he get drunk and would tell me he use to beat his first and 2nd wife but i still married thanking it be diffrert for me but i was wrong, first it was yelling, then he would tell me he would hit me he would say stuff like i was lucky he not hit me because he could really hurt me then the grabbing started he would grab me by the arm so hard it would leaves marks he would pin me to the wall so i could not move and yellthen one day he got so drung and grabed my arm telling me he was going hit me and i told him i was not scared of him so he told me i batter be hecause he could kill me then he pushed me so hard a almost fall i finel thongh he calm down so i went to bed he would come in and yell call me names then he set on the bad and puch me so hard i fell of the bed, then i got pranget we got in to it he was so drunk he grab my arms and puch in to the door and for the first time i was scared i though he was going hit me and all i could thank of was not to let him so i slaped him because i though he would hit my tummy and make me lose my baby then the same nigh he trow rock at me and he would hold his fist up and tell me he wish i would lose the baby but he never did touch me because he had is drug buddy over he told my husband if he wanted any drug he would not touch me so he stoped he finel calm down, then when i was 4 months prangent we got in to it he wanted money for the drugs and i wouldnot give it to him so he hit me 2 times on the arm telling me next time it be my face the he grabed a baseball bat and told if i not give him the money he hit me with it so i gave him the money then he lift but he come back with the stuff and telling me h was sorry he hit me he was crying he said it never happen again and i told him i for give him i belive he would not do it again but i was wrong because when i was 6 months prangent we had no money and no food because he took all the money for the drugs and you can't get food without money. finely we got a call telling us we could move in with my family so we could get my husband clean the day befor the move he was getting high on that stuff his lighter was out so he was useing a candle and i not want him doing them drugs so i blow out the candle and he slaped me in the face and all i did was go to bed telling my self it all stop when we get to texas but i was wrong he started telling me who i can and cn't talk to where i can and can't go he had to know where i was at ever min even when i went to the bathroom he would give me money and i have to tell him how much i spent, where and what i got finely on march 31 2006 i had my son he was so sweet but that only was for 2 weeks then the yelling started back he would yell at me at welmart where people could hear he would call me names he would tell me woman know nothing and men knew it all then on june 3 2006 we went to eat he got drunk he went 6 monthsno dranking so when he got drunk he got mean and started yelling at me we was on the side of the road walking he would tell me i was a bad mother the he grabed me so hard i though he pull my clothes off he let go of me we got behind this church and for some reason i can't remember why set down on the ground by then the yelling got worse my son started crying soi was feeding him but he was still in his stroller my husband we tell me he would not hit me he say he could go to jail if he did then he hit me so hard on the arm it turn purple it as the first time ever he lift a mark and again he told me he hit my face next time and i told himi was not scared so he started comeing to me with his fist up telling me i batter be scared. then he put his hands in my face i was so scared he would hit me again i could not look at him he then knid of man if you don't look it makes him worse finel he calm down, the 5 days ago i not fold up the baby diaper up so he slaped me . i always though it was from dranking and the drugs that maid him mean they was a part of it but then one day we got in to over the drugs it would be part of it, then i found out he don't have to be drunk to treat me bad because for a long time i did not see that he was treating me bad now i just hopping he will change because i don't want to leave him i love him but i want him to treat me right he a good father and sometimes he a good man just wish it was all the time

2006-06-20 16:09:28 · 22 answers · asked by amanda_ploof 1 in Family

hello i am a mother ofa 10 week and 3 day old son and i am abused by my husband it all started before we got married he get drunk and would tell me he use to beat his first and 2nd wife but i still married thanking it be diffrert for me but i was wrong, first it was yelling, then he would tell me he would hit me he would say stuff like i was lucky he not hit me because he could really hurt me then the grabbing started he would grab me by the arm so hard it would leaves marks he would pin me to the wall so i could not move and yellthen one day he got so drung and grabed my arm telling me he was going hit me and i told him i was not scared of him so he told me i batter be hecause he could kill me then he pushed me so hard a almost fall i finel thongh he calm down so i went to bed he would come in and yell call me names then he set on the bad and puch me so hard i fell of the bed, then i got pranget we got in to it he was so drunk he grab my arms and puch in to the door and for the first time i was scared i though he was going hit me and all i could thank of was not to let him so i slaped him because i though he would hit my tummy and make me lose my baby then the same nigh he trow rock at me and he would hold his fist up and tell me he wish i would lose the baby but he never did touch me because he had is drug buddy over he told my husband if he wanted any drug he would not touch me so he stoped he finel calm down, then when i was 4 months prangent we got in to it he wanted money for the drugs and i wouldnot give it to him so he hit me 2 times on the arm telling me next time it be my face the he grabed a baseball bat and told if i not give him the money he hit me with it so i gave him the money then he lift but he come back with the stuff and telling me h was sorry he hit me he was crying he said it never happen again and i told him i for give him i belive he would not do it again but i was wrong because when i was 6 months prangent we had no money and no food because he took all the money for the drugs and you can't get food without money. finely we got a call telling us we could move in with my family so we could get my husband clean the day befor the move he was getting high on that stuff his lighter was out so he was useing a candle and i not want him doing them drugs so i blow out the candle and he slaped me in the face and all i did was go to bed telling my self it all stop when we get to texas but i was wrong he started telling me who i can and cn't talk to where i can and can't go he had to know where i was at ever min even when i went to the bathroom he would give me money and i have to tell him how much i spent, where and what i got finely on march 31 2006 i had my son he was so sweet but that only was for 2 weeks then the yelling started back he would yell at me at welmart where people could hear he would call me names he would tell me woman know nothing and men knew it all then on june 3 2006 we went to eat he got drunk he went 6 monthsno dranking so when he got drunk he got mean and started yelling at me we was on the side of the road walking he would tell me i was a bad mother the he grabed me so hard i though he pull my clothes off he let go of me we got behind this church and for some reason i can't remember why set down on the ground by then the yelling got worse my son started crying soi was feeding him but he was still in his stroller my husband we tell me he would not hit me he say he could go to jail if he did then he hit me so hard on the arm it turn purple it as the first time ever he lift a mark and again he told me he hit my face next time and i told himi was not scared so he started comeing to me with his fist up telling me i batter be scared. then he put his hands in my face i was so scared he would hit me again i could not look at him he then knid of man if you don't look it makes him worse finel he calm down, the 5 days ago i not fold up the baby diaper up so he slaped me . i always though it was from dranking and the drugs that maid him mean they was a part of it but then one day we got in to over the drugs it would be part of it, then i found out he don't have to be drunk to treat me bad because for a long time i did not see that he was treating me bad now i just hopping he will change because i don't want to leave him i love him but i want him to treat me right he a good father and sometimes he a good man just wish it was all the time

2006-06-20 16:08:36 · 19 answers · asked by amanda_ploof 1 in Friends

Is it bad or wrong to clean a shotgun when my 15 yr old daughter's boyfriend comes over??

2006-06-20 16:08:02 · 23 answers · asked by Mobius 4 in Family

really younger than you

2006-06-20 16:07:51 · 14 answers · asked by act3456 2 in Singles & Dating

hello i am a mother ofa 10 week and 3 day old son and i am abused by my husband it all started before we got married he get drunk and would tell me he use to beat his first and 2nd wife but i still married thanking it be diffrert for me but i was wrong, first it was yelling, then he would tell me he would hit me he would say stuff like i was lucky he not hit me because he could really hurt me then the grabbing started he would grab me by the arm so hard it would leaves marks he would pin me to the wall so i could not move and yellthen one day he got so drung and grabed my arm telling me he was going hit me and i told him i was not scared of him so he told me i batter be hecause he could kill me then he pushed me so hard a almost fall i finel thongh he calm down so i went to bed he would come in and yell call me names then he set on the bad and puch me so hard i fell of the bed, then i got pranget we got in to it he was so drunk he grab my arms and puch in to the door and for the first time i was scared i though he was going hit me and all i could thank of was not to let him so i slaped him because i though he would hit my tummy and make me lose my baby then the same nigh he trow rock at me and he would hold his fist up and tell me he wish i would lose the baby but he never did touch me because he had is drug buddy over he told my husband if he wanted any drug he would not touch me so he stoped he finel calm down, then when i was 4 months prangent we got in to it he wanted money for the drugs and i wouldnot give it to him so he hit me 2 times on the arm telling me next time it be my face the he grabed a baseball bat and told if i not give him the money he hit me with it so i gave him the money then he lift but he come back with the stuff and telling me h was sorry he hit me he was crying he said it never happen again and i told him i for give him i belive he would not do it again but i was wrong because when i was 6 months prangent we had no money and no food because he took all the money for the drugs and you can't get food without money. finely we got a call telling us we could move in with my family so we could get my husband clean the day befor the move he was getting high on that stuff his lighter was out so he was useing a candle and i not want him doing them drugs so i blow out the candle and he slaped me in the face and all i did was go to bed telling my self it all stop when we get to texas but i was wrong he started telling me who i can and cn't talk to where i can and can't go he had to know where i was at ever min even when i went to the bathroom he would give me money and i have to tell him how much i spent, where and what i got finely on march 31 2006 i had my son he was so sweet but that only was for 2 weeks then the yelling started back he would yell at me at welmart where people could hear he would call me names he would tell me woman know nothing and men knew it all then on june 3 2006 we went to eat he got drunk he went 6 monthsno dranking so when he got drunk he got mean and started yelling at me we was on the side of the road walking he would tell me i was a bad mother the he grabed me so hard i though he pull my clothes off he let go of me we got behind this church and for some reason i can't remember why set down on the ground by then the yelling got worse my son started crying soi was feeding him but he was still in his stroller my husband we tell me he would not hit me he say he could go to jail if he did then he hit me so hard on the arm it turn purple it as the first time ever he lift a mark and again he told me he hit my face next time and i told himi was not scared so he started comeing to me with his fist up telling me i batter be scared. then he put his hands in my face i was so scared he would hit me again i could not look at him he then knid of man if you don't look it makes him worse finel he calm down, the 5 days ago i not fold up the baby diaper up so he slaped me . i always though it was from dranking and the drugs that maid him mean they was a part of it but then one day we got in to over the drugs it would be part of it, then i found out he don't have to be drunk to treat me bad because for a long time i did not see that he was treating me bad now i just hopping he will change because i don't want to leave him i love him but i want him to treat me right he a good father and sometimes he a good man just wish it was all the time

2006-06-20 16:07:21 · 21 answers · asked by amanda_ploof 1 in Marriage & Divorce

someone brought it up before and i was like is my gf cheating? her best friend says she always talks about me but she could be covering something up, and i don't talk to her so much any more. do you think she migh tbe cheating on me? and is there a way to tell?

2006-06-20 16:07:02 · 6 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok...I know there are alot of odd-balls on this site that will find this question hilarious, but I'm hoping there are also some people on here mature enough to give constructive feedback.
I was at the store and saw that KY just put out a massage oil that is also safe as a "personal lubricant", meaning it's safe to have "down there" as well as on your back or whatever. The problem is, it's a warming lubricant and the last time I tried one of those, a very painful tingling is what I got instead of "warming".
I am on the shot for birth control, and since I have been in a monogomous relationship with my fiance for almost 3 years now, STD's are not a concern either, so if you know of a massage oil that's also safe as a personal lubricant, but isn't condom safe, please let me know about it anyway.
Thanx.

2006-06-20 16:06:58 · 13 answers · asked by nofx_18_19 2 in Singles & Dating

I posted a question a few minutes ago and have already gotten quite a few answers... and they all pretty much say the same thing. I cant grab a camcorder or do my own P.I. work because in this state its considered stalking and/or harrassment. Believe me--- ive already looked into it and asked some legal people about it.... I guess i shoulda put this part in before I submitted the 1st one.... sorry...

2006-06-20 16:06:49 · 8 answers · asked by heavensent41770 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im 17 and live in NYS.

2006-06-20 16:06:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband looks at online porn..I don't have a problem that I have talked to him ..well actually we got into a fight about it last year when I was pregnant and I have concluded that he is going to do it anyway. The problem I have is that he tries to hide it from me. As in getting up for work earlier, or if I come into the room he closes the page..or when he works nights he will wait until I leave in the day and look at it. Our sex life isn't all that great. I just don't know what to do or say to make him understand how I feel about it.

2006-06-20 16:06:22 · 17 answers · asked by lilbit6996 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-20 16:05:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-20 16:03:44 · 11 answers · asked by chrissnina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

anyways i told this really cute i guy i liked to get ****** (because i was drunk) and so now he hates me and wont talk to me. Any advice?

2006-06-20 16:03:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so we are happy. always seems to make me feel good about myself and smile. BUT it seems sex is on his mind24 7 he says its ok when i say no but always seems to try to intiate it sometime during the day. i love him but i cant keep doin this waht seems all physical relationship. we talk and hang out to dont get me wrong but sometimes it is just to much. i love him to death but sometimes i just second guess, all becuase my past realtionships im scared. should i just talk to him? or let it go? or think more about it? please help suggestions would be SOO appreicated

2006-06-20 16:03:03 · 5 answers · asked by dancerchick5287 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it when you can not live with out the person. or stand to be with out the person.

2006-06-20 16:02:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating