what should i do with my relationship?

Question

ok so we are happy. always seems to make me feel good about myself and smile. BUT it seems sex is on his mind24 7 he says its ok when i say no but always seems to try to intiate it sometime during the day. i love him but i cant keep doin this waht seems all physical relationship. we talk and hang out to dont get me wrong but sometimes it is just to much. i love him to death but sometimes i just second guess, all becuase my past realtionships im scared. should i just talk to him? or let it go? or think more about it? please help suggestions would be SOO appreicated

we are good friends to we help each other out and seem to get along great. so itsnot just ALL sex all the time butjust a lil more then id like

Answer 1

You need to talk to him about how you feel. Good sex in a relationship is great, but it doesn't make up the whole relationship. A good relationship is based on your actual platonic relationship and friendship - you need to talk to eachother, go out, etc. Just tell him how you feel and be honest!

Answer 2

Sounds like your a bit cold. Why don't you feel the need for sex that often? Are you just tired of all the work, or isn't there any passion? Your question is double sided. Don't be afraid if he is to much to handle, be honest and tell him to slow down and give you breathing space. Better yet, give him something he totally doesn't expect. Like a whip, chains, cuffs, show him who is the boss.

Answer 3

Yes Talk to Him

Answer 4

Yes you should talk to him. If not, your suppressed feelings will eventually turn into resentment.

Answer 5

So he has a high sex drive? Wish I had that problem.