so yah im the girl who asked if it was wrong to cheat
damn carma catches up with yah...
ohk so my bf gets this text the other night from his friend who says that ive been talking to this guy, "toni" and ohk 1st you have to know that *toni* is friends with me and my bf. anyways...this person texts my boifriend and says ive been teling toni that he can hit it....i uhh..need help? like i told my bf that its a lie...but hello!? i only told him that bc i dont wna loose him...he's the best thing thats hapend to me this is a realy serious relationship too... wat wuld be the best thing to do? like..right now he believes me..but i dont kno, i cant help it...i just always find myself in situations that wuld get me into toruble like..cheating...i always say no, that i wont do it again...but i always end up doin it.i kno this is prolly the most stupid question any of yall have anwserd..but i seriously need advice from male and female..that dont kno me.im too embarasd to ask any of my friends.
2006-06-20 16:10:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what is the question? it seems to me that if you really cared about your boyfriend and really did feel like he was the best thing that ever happened to you then you would treat him right. quit being so selfish! if he means so much to you then act right!
2006-06-20 16:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Knocked Up 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, your BF is not the right guy for you. If you can't say no, then something is missing that you have to go other places to get it. Whether it's attention, whatever, it's not there. Now admitting that is hard, why mess up a good thing, I love him, blah blah blah....I won't do it again, blah blah blah..... If you did it once, you have done the damage, I seriously doubt this relationship will be long term. Once you find "the one", well..... you'll know. God will shout it in your ear, "hey stupid, he's the one", and you'll never look at another guy the same again. The best part, all the old ones will fade away, you will never "what if" again about a guy form the past. If you are with a guy and you think "Hey I remember so-and-so, I wish that would of worked, if only this... or that...." If you say that, you have not found the one yet.
Don't worry, you will, you're just not there yet. You're young, you'll look back at this time and laugh. Good luck.
By the way, you don't have to tell him, but it's time to break it off or at least get it in your head that it's not forever with THIS ONE
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2006-06-20 16:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Okiekatt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart honest it's time to let go of teh safety blanket (meaning your boyfried). You obviously are attracted to other guys so much that yu a not faithful too so wouldn't it be nice to be able to be with those other guys without this little guilt trip you a putting on yourself? Yes your boyfriend is prolly a great guy and he'll always have a place in your heart but it sounds like you've , for lack of a better term, out grown him. It may be tough but by breaking up with him you're free to see all the "other" guys you see and that would leave him free to find someon that will be faithful to him./
2006-06-20 16:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you dont want to cheat, but end up doing it for the attention and you probably have a hard time saying 'no' to guys, because you want them to like you. Or maybe you like looking for the next best thing to come along, you just need to learn to say NO!
Also tell you bf the truth, we will most likely find out anyway.
2006-06-20 16:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by MandyHawk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First up baby girl get alone with your bad self and figure out why you cheat. It may be a good idea to talk to a counselor, because you may not be very honest with yourself at this point. You don't have to tell anyone that you are going for help, maybe even talk to a counselor at one of the local schools. They help for free and it's confidential!!! Then really get honest with your man. You are starting this relationship off on the wrong foot. You made a mistake and may have to pay the karma god for it. He is going to find out. Trust me. If I can help please e-mail me through this fine medium. I am glad to give my time to folks who really need it. Peace to you girlie-girl. Nana
2006-06-20 16:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id say he does like you, but isn't ready for a real relationship yet.. if he was, then he would have dumped the girl, or never have dated her in the first place. Although it is kinda weird that his girl friend is alright with him seeing you so much! haha i know i wouldn't want my gf doing that! id feel like i was nothing! I think he should break up with that girl.. then rest for a month or two, so that he can really focus on what he wants.
2016-05-20 07:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best policy is to look at it this way, if you are not happy enough in the relationship to stay faithful, it is time to get out of the relationship. It isn't fair to be with someone and cheating on them. It will only lead to heartache and worse.
2006-06-20 16:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by 32nkikin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a cheat always a cheat!! I dont believe in cheating..no excuses u can to help it. If u really cared for your bf u would never do it to him. If u cant keep your **** closed to be faithful to one man then dont get into serious relationships. Cuz your not the one getting hurt.
2006-06-20 16:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is choice. In any situation we choose even when we just go along. Be responsible. Be honest. No relationship can exist without trust. Peace.
2006-06-20 16:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by wildrover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
clearly if you keep cheating hes not the ONE. and if your only 17, you should be having fun and not worried about guys. Just have fun, go on too many dates and explore how many other guys are out there. There are millions of guys out there
2006-06-20 16:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋