2006-06-20 16:18:19 · 25 answers · asked by armyjeff33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they r confused...lookin 4 luv in all da wrong places...dey want 2 b wit a thug....feel he'll leave her if she dont allow it.....or maybe dey jus might like 2 b abused
2006-06-20 16:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Understanding 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you first meet a man, they are the sweetest person you have ever met in your life...it stays good for a while and then, some change, for the worse, and some stay the same....well, before they change and turn into bad men, the women already think they've fallen in love with him and they tell themselves that he's just doing the stuff he does because he loves them back....they won't open up their eyes and see the good things around them and realize they don't deserve the treatment they are getting....also, a lot of women make the mistake in thinking that all men are the same and that none is different than the others...you good men need to work harder to make these women realize this stuff....
2006-06-20 16:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by nikki_mh02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are stupid. They might have some reason to think they won't be able to get a better man (overweight etc.) this causes them to lower their standards and accept men that are garbage. Also, sometimes things are great in the beginning and then slowly deteriorate, some women have a hard time leaving men they love, no matter how poorly they are treated.
2006-06-20 16:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because all men treat women badly what else is a heterosexual woman to do? Everybody is a mix of good and evil and we men have specialized in it. Women being typically weaker than males fall into the role of the victim and are comfortable in their misery. Misery loves company and nobody wants to be alone.
2006-06-20 16:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by elreybrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because as soon as you start treating a woman too well, they lose interest in you. The mystery and challenge is gone.
I used to be a nice (single) guy.
Now I'm mostly a bastard and I have more women interested in me than I can count. It's retarded, but that's just the way it is.
It's amazing. Take a girl out on one date and be nice, but after that you just ignore them. They can't get enough.
2006-06-20 17:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking that warrants almost the same answer as why do children deliberately disobey? Lets face it, every single person will agree Any attention is better than no attention. Women (or some men in my case) date guys who 'throw them under the bus" because it's those guys who dedicate all the time in the world to us. Yes, they are dedicating said time to beating on us, and telling us how worthless we are, but its attention that we are in fact getting, rather that sitting home alone. Everyone tells themselves that its better than nothing, and we make excuses like "he just had a bad day" or "he just wants time to be with his friends" but lets face it, if he isn't mister right, he isn't Mr right-now either. I know it sucks, but Remember, its better to be alone and contempt, than together, and miserable! sorry for what ever happened that inspired this post. **hug**
2006-06-20 16:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by kris5449 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't, but the girls I know who do date guys who treat them bad is because they are either: A. Serial daters and will take any guy who will date them because they cannot bare to be single more than a week, or B. they're too stupid to realize the good guys on Earth.
2006-06-20 16:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by roverriffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- Most women who connect with men who treat them badly are looking for someone who reminds them of their father, even if their father treated them badly (whether they realize it or not, they do it).
2- Most women who connect with men who treat them badly have very little or no self-esteem.
2006-06-20 16:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sexual dynamic's of the bad boy image, taking charge and making the woman feel secure for awhile , then the control soon to be discovered is sufficating and most times abusive, it all spirals down to the final escape, we learn alot from these men, we know what we do not want.
2006-06-20 16:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree; low self-esteem is a common cause. Also, there is a mystique about such men that some women find irresistable.
2006-06-20 16:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
evolutionary psychology answer; human ape sex was once a lot like cat sex...not very different from rape. Some of that ends up translating into modern behaviors...women subliminally choose abusive people because thats a sublimated instinct...
2006-06-20 16:23:42 · answer #11 · answered by kucitizenx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋