I'M 26 AND MY MAN IS 21. We have been together for 2 years and have a child together. He has this "female"friend who continues to cause problems in our relationship. From sending him naked pics to calling our home leaving messages. He has told her in the past to stop calling but after about 1 week if that, he will start calling her. He claims it's to get meupset,but i know better than that. I went through so much dealing with this issue when I was carrying our child and it has not gotten better.But wait here's the twist he has only met this person one time. They only share phone conversations. He said at one time he was in love with her but his feeling have change. She has really become obssessed and refuses to leave him alone. I don't completely put the blame on this female he is definately also to blame.He claims he loves me and doesn't want to be without me. I have told him how I feel about this so called friend but he refuses to cut all contact with her. What's a girl to do???????
2006-06-20 15:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by sunshyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Probably a little late but, he doesn't want to be tied down, he thinks he has the right to have other women take his attention from you. If he were a real man he would completely cut ties with this slut and take care of his family. Again i say IF he were a man which he is not obviously. You need to leave and enjoy yourself and do whats best for your child. Just my opinion...
2006-06-26 04:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont put up with that, you only get what you settle for, and no woman deserves to come second to a "female friend" which is obviously more. Give him an ultimatum and stick to it, i know its hard but trust me in the long run itll be harder on you if you continue to watch this happen.
Contact should have been cut from the first naked picture..
girls like that make me sick.
2006-06-20 15:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave....What are you? A piece of meat? A women who
deserves this type of treatment? Do you think so little of
yourself? Leave!
2006-06-20 15:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to ask "should I leave my man", then you should leave your man. enough said
2006-06-20 15:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by zoinks22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he already chose her, by refusing to end the affair, cause if you think they arent seeing each other you are nuts, you are what you set your worth at, dump him
2006-06-20 15:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack up and leave.
2006-06-20 15:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by The Whopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋