we've been dating for over a year and i don't want to break up with him @ all that seems to be the last thing on my mind. i've made a few wrong turns in our relationship @ the beginning but i've learned from my mistakes... & have not done anything since. But the last time we broke up which was about a month ago i kind of had doubts on going back out with him because it seemed like he was always ashamed of dating me and told other girls he didn't know that he was single. So he would talk to these girls on the computer. but then i took him back because he swore to me that it wasn't going to happen again,, well i've been looking @ some things and noticed that on his other s/n that he blocked me on said single and free to mingle as i got on another s/n. He has also been telling people to message him on that name instead of his other name but i'm confused because he tells me that he doesn't talk to other girls and he's not ashamed of me... what do i do and believe ???
2006-06-20 15:41:48 · 11 answers · asked by ash6lei2a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF THERE IS ANY DOUBT, ANY DOUBT---_DROP THE LOSER.....you are hanging on to a fake security blanket.....if he offers you a ring and you vision this guy as your future hubby and you want to have his 2 or 3 children...then you need to drop the doubt......Don't be MRS. DOUBTFIRE and get burned just because you made a few mistakes.......LOVE HIM or LEAVE HIM.....that simple......GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-06-20 15:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by PEDRO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well it seems to me that u r truely in love with him if u have been going out with him 4 so long, but not all relationships r ment to be. u urself said that u had made mistakes in the past and have changed 4 him, but maybe he is trying to get back at u ((which he shouldnt do!)) or maybe not.. maybe as a person b4 said he wants his cake and eat it too.. u r only 15 and so is ur b/f and maybe he jus wants to see wat else is out there.. i really would recommand that u break up with him, but i dout u will do that so maybe 4 now until u clear ur head and find wat u urself truely want that u should take a break ((meaning dont talk to each other or hang out 4 a lil and c wat happens)) i mean obiously there was a reason that u made mistakes in ur past and i feel that if a guy does something like talk to other girls once and says he wouldnt do it again and says he will change that no matter wat he will always go back to his same old ways.. no matter how much they say they love u and will change 4 u they eventually jus forget.. if it is ment to be it will always find a way
2006-06-23 08:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break this to you but the guy is lying and he is cheating on you behind your back. Of course he is gonna tell you that he isnt doing anything because he wants to be with you and other girls. Im sorry but your man is a as*hole, its time to move on. There is plenty of other guys out there that will treat you better then he has.
2006-06-20 15:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you saw it "with your own two eyes", then he's obviously lying. If he did it before, promised not to do it again and did it again...it sounds like he should not be trusted by you. I'd get out of it if you can, and find a new guy who's not afraid to tell the truth.
2006-06-20 15:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you for a fool.... I know it hurts to be told... but if he's doing that constantly, he wants his cake and eat it too so to speak... One reason or another he doesn't want to loose you, but he wants to be out there looking for soemthing.... whatever he feels he's missing.... As hard as it is, you must move on....be friends....creat distance.
2006-06-20 15:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by SunRise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should dump the poor bastard i mean u have only done almost everything there is with him and just go ahead and throw a year and 2 or 3 months, u wont feel any remorse i bet........................... hahahahaha <3 you
2006-06-22 04:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to put yourself through that with him saying he's single and u getting ur feelings hurt when he was doing it before u took him back..
2006-06-20 15:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your instinct to me sounds like he is chating like he is single u might want to check if he is on myspace.com
2006-06-20 15:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by elimalang4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make him single!
2006-06-20 15:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is why didn't you dump him a while ago?
2006-06-20 15:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋