A friend of mine, he's sexually attracted, I always wanted more than sex, so we remained friends for 10+ yrs. He'd touch & feel my a*ss at times, I never liked that but never confronted him bcz I was afraid he'd get mad & we'd argue. A couple of wks ago I saw him. He hugged me, grabbed/felt my a*ss with both hands. I HATED it. I didnt say nothing bcz I fear an argument. But it bothered me so much that last night I called & tried to talk to him about it. I didnt yell, didnt get nasty, I wasnt belligerent, I was TALKING to him. I told him I felt violated & disrespected when he feels on my a*ss. His response was short, with attitude. He said, "You read too deep into things" & "Trust me it'll never happen again" & he hung up on me. I was still talking. That hurt my feelings. From there we argued FOR A LONG TIME & it got NASTY & I'm the bad guy. See? This is why I hesitated to confront him. Shouldnt he had've responded with more respect & talked to me instead of hanging up on me???
2007-12-27
02:09:47
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