I am 35 yr old Indian guy working as professor in a US university. I have been living all alone here for 15 yrs now, ever since I came to the US to get my PhD and have been very lonely all along. I Sometime about 6 months ago, I reluctantly acceded to my family's "demand" that I get married and they fixed me up with this doctor girl and we spoke on the phone a few times; six times to be exact. Unfortunately, I was rather resigned in my conversations and didn't really communicate. She asked about my "past" and I told her point upfront that it was " blank". Of late, since I am supposed to go to India and marry her 3 weeks from now, I have started wondering (1) I never asked abt her "past" (2) Since I didn't communicate much, I am surprised that she actually agreed to marry me, so does she have too much of a "past" to be "unmarriageable" in the indian sense? (3) why did she even agree to marry me? am i getting into something i dont understand?
2007-12-24
18:22:27
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