My boyfriend and I are both currently seniors in college. We have been dating for almost two years, and are in love. I go to school out of state, wheras he is a local student.
We want to get an apartment together after college, but are in disagreement about the level our relationship should be at before we take this next step. We both know we want to spend the rest of our lives together. but he doesn't want to get engaged before we move in together. I am the kind of person who believes in long engagements, and doesn't necessarily think that an engagement means the couple has to get married right away. I don't even WANT to get married until after college at least and we both have steady jobs. On the other hand, whileI don't want to pressure him into anything, I want to see some sort of commitment before I move in with him. What does everything think? How can I approach him about this without pressuring him? Every time this comes up in conversation he changes the subject.
2007-12-24
03:43:54
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