I have been platonic friends with a man somewhat younger than I am for about 4 years. We have both had other relationships, now with the holidays coming ( my dad lives with me and does not approve of me having over night guests) we have been discussing changing this relationship. I know you are going to ask why my dad has anything to say about it, cause he has dementia/alzeheimer's and doesn't know when or how to be quiet. I want this man to come for the holidays as he is alone, but don't want to rush things. We both know 2 unmarried people of opposite sexes can sleep in the same bed with nothing going on but not sure that is what we want. How do we go from best platonic friends to a lot more? He says he wants to marry me,,, being a lot older I am concerned about the age difference which is over 14 yrs, Any 'older' adults got any suggestions? We aren't sure if it is love yet or not. He has a 9 yr old daughter that he wants to regain custody of and has to be married to get that.
2007-12-06
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