I am 41, she is 44. Both of us are divorced with kids from previous marriage. She told me that her husband "dumped her" after 22 years of marriage. She is also very private about what kind of property settlements she got (money issues). She lives very well on a teacher's income, so I know something more happened. My family is fairly affluent. She never makes the first move on anything, except on "i love yous" and wanting to talk about "future" and marriage. We've only been together for 2 months. (But that's quite a long time for people our age and we have spent a lot of time together). I recently dug into the courthouse papers and found that SHE was the petitioner on her divorce, not her ex. However, she may have had no choice but to file against him since he was out of the state at the time and she probably needed $$ help. Maybe that's why she is the one that filed. It just bugs me. What should I do? Does this smell like true love or someone who may be after $$?
2007-11-27
04:05:27
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