I separated from my husband and met someone a few months later. We've been together for 8 months. He caught his wife cheating on him. To add, she gambled and was in serious debt. this happened 5yrs before we met.He stuck around for his kids who were 2 & 6 at the time of the affair. He was afraid of losing his kids, and his money, to her. Law is always on the side of the mother. He's still living in the family home and has filed separation papers, which she is still to sign. He says if he stays away from home, for even 1 night, it's considered 'desertion' and he may lose his kids over this - is this true? Says he loves me & wants a life with me....but we're still no better off, than when we first met. I've given him an ultimatum and have decided not to see him until he resolves this separation. Is there a chance he's really working on it & and is he right about deserting his children, when he stays with me for 1 night????I do love him...but I'm sticking around to get hurt.
2007-11-25
02:59:53
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