i have a bf but there are times that im really attracted to girls.... sometimes i fantasize kissing a girl, but im more attracted to guys... i dont know how to solve this prob
2007-11-25 02:58:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i dont like to have a relationship wiith a bi.. but im also thinking what its like to have a straight gf, im really not comfortable to talk this matter with my friends. ive tried kissing girls, but i dont like the girl whom i kissed, its just a dare...
2007-11-25 03:11:34 · update #1
sounds like you are bisexual or at least bicurious...don't be confused there are many people who like both sexes...test the waters :)
good luck!
2007-11-25 03:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm there is nothing to be confused of and worry about. You have a bit bisexual orientation. Which means you are attracted towards both sexes. Thats something your brain has formed into and cant be changed. But since you are sure that you are happy and comfortable with your opposite sex, just be so.
And let me tell you a secret. A woman's attraction for another woman has been accepted by the society in a greater extend compared to a man getting atracted to another. And you wont believe this but there are a lot of guys who have a fantasy of watching his girl making love to another woman but is afraid to tell her for the fear of hurting her feelings or the relationships.
So be cool and enjoy your time. And if ever your guy asks you whats your wildest fantasy, tell him that you are sexually (not emotionally) attracted to another girl and just watch how wicked crazy he will be about you after that.
2007-11-25 11:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in a paradigm is very bad......first off its not a problem....since when have feelings have been problems? You have a bf, i think you should stay with him......but also there is nothing wrong in experimenting.....i mean you say you have fantasized.....if you really feel like it, then try it.....my honest advice to you would be that suppress these feeling for the sake of your bf......you're both happy with each other, i assume.......so do not let something so trifle spoil it for you both.....stick with your bf and try not to think about all this and you'll be good......but if you feel yourself slipping, talk to your bf about it too, i m sure he'd understand and try to help you.....don be stressed
Cheers
2007-11-25 11:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by b.arnav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be attracted to the opposite sex and to wonder or fantasize about them. If you did kiss a girl it wouldn't make you gay, but you would know what it's like and if you like it.
2007-11-25 11:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by jstchel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be a normal person. Girl kissing a girl is abnormal. Forget about your fantasize, you are going wrong.
2007-11-25 11:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by LadyAnis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a term in our country that is called "silahis" or much known as bisexual... it's someone who is attracted both to women and men. I don't think there's nothing we can say to solve this problem. I think you should choose for yourself. I don't think there's something wrong with it...
2007-11-25 11:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by gene_ius021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to really know is to try it out with girls, i bet you a hundred bucks your bf wont mind if u mess around with girls.
2007-11-25 11:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by Cody 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women are quite beautiful, and very attractive. Guys are not the only ones who notice this. You are fine, don't worry about it.
Love and blessings Don
2007-11-25 11:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Sound Like Your Bisexual..x
2007-11-25 11:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by SM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be bisexual. If you prefer the company of men for sex, then you are a heterosexual. A lot of people are bisexual - don't worry about it. I had a bisexual girlfriend a long time ago - she was sexy as hell. Stop worrying.
2007-11-25 11:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a girl and a guys in ur room at same time and take a decision
2007-11-25 11:03:08 · answer #11 · answered by juan_hillo_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋