Well, this has just been eating me alive, my friend who I known for two years all of a sudden tells me that she has feeling’s for me, that she has been falling for me more and more. I was kind of thrilled since I felt attracted to her but only saw her as a good friend, but then again devastated, because she say’s she wants to give it time, she want’s to be sure and does not want to rush right in to it now that I know. See the problem is that she told me this a while ago and will talk about it once in a while when we hangout, text, or talk in the phone, and I been falling for her more and more and it bites! I wish that she would not of told me at all until she was really sure about it, but she already told me and I just want to distance my self from her afraid that such a special person like her will break my heart and afterwards will just become apart and our relationship as friends will never be the same. There is the possibility that nothing may come out of this, and that’s what bother’s me, I really see now how much I really like this girl, and I would just wish to stop thinking of her, at times I don’t want to even talk to her because I get so caught up thinking about her that it hurt’s if you know what I mean. She worries that I will break her heart since she had been going out with some guy for a while and he left her for another girl about a year ago. And she is scared that I would do the same and leave her if she gives me all of her heart she say’s. She has said that she really likes me for how I treat her and talk to her, that I am a very different guy and very mature and she like’s me for me, and that she hope’s that I don’t change when I am with her. But I already talked about it and assure her that I would not do such a thing to her, that I would not play with her feeling’s and I am who I am, why would I want to change, she knows my flaw’s as I do hers, we talked about everything, she is the only person that I can tell anything too, and she tells me everything as well. I been in a serious relationship before of three years and the girl left me for my bestfriend, so we been threw the same situation, so I know where she is coming from. I don’t know, I am so confused and scared at the same time, has this happen to any of you guy’s? And if so, what happen, and girls, give me some advised that may help me, you know how we guy’s can be so ignorant when it comes to women! Thanks! All of your answers will be highly appreciated!
2007-11-24
00:41:28
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