So my mother-in-law goes from telling me I'm an angel to telling me all her family's problems are my fault.
I am chronically ill and have been out of work for almost 2 years, she rubs this into my face every chance she can get (Even though before I got ill I was working almost 80 hours a week). She will actually trap me into a conversation so she can verbally lash out at me. (And it's worse when she's drinking) I have NEVER said ANYTHING mean or even remotely unkind. All I've done is help her. My husband and I decided that we don't want to be around her when she's like that and especially now because we don't want our 4 month old togrow up around such negitivity. So my hubby made me a deal, we'd visit, but as soon as she starts in, we'll leave. but yesterday he took that back: see his dad asked if we'd come over to help him move and my husband said yes, then he tells me he's not going to leave his dad hanging and if his mom acts up he won't leave with me. is this fair?
2007-11-24
00:57:13
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reptileandee
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