Call me old fashioned, but I think that when a guy puts the moves on the girl, he should do so slowly and respectfully.
I've hung out with a guy 3 times so far. I'm coming off of a bad relationship and I explained to him, I wasn't ready for anything...I'm still very hurt and trying to mend myself...
We watched a movie the last time we hung out. He kissed me. Which was fine. But he kissed me and then asked if I had a condom. I kind of shot him a look..like..."There's no chance we're going to have sex." And he proceeded to try to take off my shirt. I stopped that. And he tried for my pants. Not once, but twice.
I'm not going to lie, I felt a bit offended. I'm 23 so maybe it's not that big of a deal. But it is to me. I was kind of into him until this happened. I guess I just expect a guy to be respectful, gentle, and slow with me. I didn't feel that at all with him. And now, I don't really want to see him again. Am I making too big of a deal of this?
2007-11-02
03:03:36
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