Married for one year, with a lot of happy days and some not so happy.Started working for my boss, an articulate elegant man double my age. His physical attributes do not excite me at all---short, balding, early signs of a pot belly, etc. Why have I suddenly become attracted to him? At first, any physical contact or him flirting with me didn't impress me, in fact I was almost repelled. I had terrible thoughts of him fantasizing about me and still wish he wouldn't, but all of a sudden I started enjoying his attention. I love it when he looks at me a little too long, or winks at me, or compliments me. His cologne turns me on. I feel the same towards my husband, who's a little rough around the edges, and a very simple loving man. I love him dearly.
What's your take on my sudden shift of interest ?
What would you suggest I do about my feelings?
How do I have sex with my husb. without thinking about my boss?
2007-11-01
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