I've asked a similar question before, but the way I've written confuses many, so I've posted a new Q with different aproach.
My English fiance, who I fell in love madly last year when I was in London for an year, came to Japan to propose me this July.
But my successful American ex boyfriend who's my best mate now has asked me to return to him, and marry him, at a similar timing.
He now knows that I have a fiance, but he's my closest person who I can talk anything at all, even criticism, and I feel like I've made a huge mistake.
I'm in love with my fiance, but I've only known him for an year, and he has totally different value in what makes each other happy. I have much deeper love (as a good friend, close to familly) but I'm not attracted to him as much as my current fiance.
I understand how much my fiance loves me, but I can't lie to myself knowing I'd be sayng "what ifs" all through my life...
Is this a sign to cancel my engagement?
Very serious...
2007-10-24
02:54:48
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