So I am getting married in February, and I have a question. We are having a small wedding (75ish people) and we both have very large families, because of this, we obviously couldnt invite alot of people we wanted to. One of the ways we cut people ways we decided to invite no children unless they were in the wedding party or immediate family, and we only invited aunts and uncles but no cousins. In the end we ended up inviting very few (like 4?) because they had been involved in the planning or were very special growing up, etc. Now we have heard different people are very upset and offended because their kids arent invited, or because we didnt invite so and so, etc. I have apologized but they are still hurt. Am I handleing this wrong? We just have alot going on right now and can't afford so many people. I think its about us and not them, but I still feel guilty and they are still offended. Thanks!
2007-10-24
02:42:19
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