In the heat of our first big fight as a married couple, my husband of five months started throwing things, furniture etc around our living room. Damaged the wall, broke a few things. He also was yelling very loudly and was in my face. I pushed him, kind of hit/push away type thing - I didn't hurt him, he's twice my size. After everything was over, when were were talking things through I brought up his anger issues and he critisized me for hitting him, saying that my action was abuse & what he did wasn't abuse. He managed to turn the tables and had ME apologizing. A couple friends have said these are big red flags. Is there hope? Are these signs he could be abusive in the future?
2007-10-19
05:15:53
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