All categories - 13 October 2007

My boyfriend and I are untraditional. We have decided that I will be the one to propose to him. I have bought his ring. I have planned the proposal and we talk about the future constantly. He is expecting me to propose. But now I feel like I'm getting cold feet.

Details:

1. He is sweet, sensitive, funny and we share the same values. He treats me very well. Neither of us is rich, but we are sensible about money and I am certain that we would have a secure future.

2. He is wonderful to me in bed, but he has erectile dysfunction. We are investigating options, but we do not know the prognosis. Regardless, he is a sensitive lover and I am satisfied sexually. I have never had intercourse anyway, so I don't know what I'm missing. I am concerned, however, that if there is no treatment it will come to frustrate us in the long run.

3. We have not decided whether we want children or not. He originally thought he wanted them...I have not been so sure and neither of us feels ready to decide.

2007-10-13 14:57:15 · 3 answers · asked by weirdiscomplimentary 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 14:56:43 · 8 answers · asked by sweetn_shy_00 2 in Toddler & Preschooler

softwares i need to remove trojans from my pc i have xp home

2007-10-13 14:56:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Software

and other creepy crawlies, like spiders? mosquitoes? Dumb,I know, but wondering...?

2007-10-13 14:56:14 · 12 answers · asked by Dragonflygirl 7 in Religion & Spirituality

The Seventh-day Adventists are one of the few Christian churches that follow the example of Christ in this sacred act of humility. The church provides a basin with water and a towel for members to wash the feet of fellow members prior to partaking of the bread and the wine(Grape Juice) Christ blood.

Jesus washed the feet of his disciples. This was an act of humilty. The Master of all becomes the Servant to all. He stoops down and acts the part of a servant. He even washed the dirty feet of Judas. He knew that Judas had betrayed him, but he still reached out to his betrayer in a most loving way. Jesus is our example in humilty.

Why do so many of our Christian churches omit the Ordinance of humilty during their Communion Service? The act itself symbolizes cleansing. Cleansing from pride, selfishness, prejudice, immorality and all known and unknown sins.

God's grace is sufficient. The Ordinance of humility is a most beautiful service. Christ is our example in this sacred act

2007-10-13 14:56:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

I know it's illegal to buy cigs if you're under 18, but I heard that you can get in trouble for smoking if you're under 18. Is this true? I smoke all the time out in public. Cops drive by and don't do anything...i am confused...

2007-10-13 14:55:54 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda Overmeyer-Janis of today! 5 in Law Enforcement & Police

My husband had a seven-month affair and I don’t know what to do?
You see he is my best friend and we have been through so much together.
We have been married for 5 years but we have been together for 15. We have been doing IVF for the past seven years and because of complications with treatment I have ended up in intensive care twice in the past 5 years both times I nearly died. My husband has been fantastic always there by my side I never felt I was going through anything on my own; he was always there with me. At the begin of last year I had to have an operation and was very ill when I came home he was brilliant as usual. But by the end of last year he had change completely he was very distant and when I would ask him if their was anything wrong he would say no or he just needed to be selfish for a bit and concentrate on himself. He started going out with work more, his music taste changed he even started to dress differently. By February this year I knew there was defiantly something going on and after a lot of questions and arguments he finally admitted it. Apparently he had felt so needed for so long and when I was well he felt sort of redundant and around the same time a 20-year-old girl had started work in his office. She laugh at his jokes, the ones I have heard and laughed at a thousand times, he felt attractive again, needed and wanted. He said there is no question I am and always will be the love of his life but he did think life might be easier with someone else, because so many thing had go wrong for us. I defiantly feel we should have got counselling while we were going through all the treatment, but he never said how he was feeling and when I did asks it was too late. He has ended the affair and we are trying to put it behind us. I always thought it doesn’t matter if I don’t get a child because I have my soul mate the love of my life but now I feel I have been cheated out of that as well. I know I have rambled on a bit but I wanted you to have some background about us before you gave me advice, it’s so easy for other women to say just leave him, but I do still love him. I just wanted to know if this is a common occurrence with infertile couples because I am heart broken and feel so alone. So if there is anyone out there who has some advice please help me!

2007-10-13 14:55:35 · 22 answers · asked by franceypants 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Atheists...what is this imaginary persecution that you guys talk about ? You speak as if the USA is controlled by religion. This country has given you freedom to be whatever you want to be. I live in the so called " Bible-belt " right now and not one person has EVER tried to " cram Jesus down my throat "...not once. I look very jewish and if anyone would be a target for prosylitizing it would be me. Do you think you may be dramatising this Christian persecution thing at least a little bit ?

2007-10-13 14:55:21 · 19 answers · asked by one_nice_jewish_girl 1 in Religion & Spirituality

2007-10-13 14:55:16 · 11 answers · asked by Moore55 4 in Polls & Surveys

i loved him when he was with WCW but then he just seemed to disappear when they switched to WWE, with the wolf pack disbanded and the wrestlers renamed (which was lame) i just didn't have the heart to watch anymore. So what happened to the gorgeous hunk in the leather trench?

2007-10-13 14:55:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Wrestling

Sigh...will somebody just write the cable companies to get them to create the (W)hite (E)nter(T)anment channel so that the Caucasians on this site will stop complaining? They could put on shows and videos which depict their race in the best possible and most inspiring light...just like BET! =D

2007-10-13 14:55:09 · 14 answers · asked by MajorCrumpet 4 in Other - Cultures & Groups

does he like die?

2007-10-13 14:55:07 · 2 answers · asked by bully dog72 1 in Comedy

Isnt a sport a physical activity?

Its just wasting gas anyway

2007-10-13 14:55:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in NASCAR

Well, being a Kentucky guy, I am still in shock over the big win we had tonight. I am starting to think that my boys have a pretty damn good chance of winning the SEC. I guess we will see next week when they play Florida in Lexington. Thoughts?

2007-10-13 14:54:51 · 11 answers · asked by Sloth for President 2012 3 in Football (American)

2007-10-13 14:54:47 · 2 answers · asked by Carlisa D 1 in Homework Help

2007-10-13 14:54:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Biology

flavored or regular?

2007-10-13 14:54:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

Well thats no the question but if you like it alot do you think it should sign a contract with suave or dove or degree or ban and make deodarants smell like bath and body works smells like: your faves??

2007-10-13 14:54:36 · 11 answers · asked by Jessy 2 in Other - Beauty & Style

If a healthy female was impregnated by cancerous male would evoloution or natural selection correct the problem and are we interfering with evoloution by not totally relying on it to correct our health woes?

2007-10-13 14:53:50 · 3 answers · asked by james h 2 in Medicine

I have this friend that I've known since 6th grade (we're both in 9th grade now) and we used to have a lot of fun together. But now she is changing. Just because I'm into 70s, 80s and 90s music, she says that it's stupid. Today at our school we had a pancake breakfast and I invited her, just HER and another friend of mine and she shows up to my mom's car with her brother when I clearly just invited her. Then because my mom and I were late she said "I was about to do something else since you weren't coming" even though we called and left her a message. I have nothing agansit her brother, but I really just wanted it to be the 4 of us(me, my mom, my other friend and her). I also get picked up from shool and she always depends on me and my mom for rides and since my mom listens to the same kind of music I like (oldies stuff) she says all the time in a discusted tone "Oh what's this song?". I'm really getting sick of it. WHat should I do? She also almost brought her sister to my birthday party last year and is always trying to bring her sibs to events that I just invited HER to. HELP!

2007-10-13 14:53:45 · 3 answers · asked by Justine 2 in Friends

Sneakers, loafers or dress shoes? What color? The coat is medium gray.

2007-10-13 14:53:44 · 4 answers · asked by bovinotarian 2 in Polls & Surveys

1st all its about Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince
was snape a death eater the whole time, or was he a double agent, cause i'm so confused?!?! and why did he kill dumbleodre? wasn't malfoy suppose to, why did he but in? and one last question, why did voldemort want dumbledore dead?
i just finished book 6 so please no spoilers from book 7 or any at all please

2007-10-13 14:53:35 · 3 answers · asked by DeeDee 5 in Books & Authors

2007-10-13 14:53:28 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs jen c 1 in Cooking & Recipes

2007-10-13 14:53:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

I am going to be skating to Mission Impossible for a competion.
What kind of outfit should i wear?

Find me an outfit & include links!

Thanks.

2007-10-13 14:53:00 · 4 answers · asked by !HIGH FIVE! 5 in Ice Skating

wanna give me one, or anyone else here who needs one ;)

2007-10-13 14:52:33 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

my frend was telling me that the astronots never realy went there but it was all done in holleywood with specal affects??? is that true???

2007-10-13 14:52:29 · 35 answers · asked by Gold Digger 5 in Astronomy & Space

2007-10-13 14:52:14 · 13 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Military

Does any one konw how I can get a really cheap '68 Impala? (or any other cheap car that I could use as my first car) And yes, I know and Impala isn't the best first car, but why can't I dream?

2007-10-13 14:52:13 · 4 answers · asked by s3th 1 in Chevrolet