Been back at home for 6 weeks now, and we've been trying to work things out. We both had our faults, but my spouse seems to forget everything he "realized" in the summer, and feels now that he did nothing wrong. Then, we have not been intimate for the entire time either, and he was pressuring me, having tantrums for the first 3 weeks, and then I'd feel guilty. Then, after the 3am yelling matches stopped, it evened out to maybe once every 4 or so days. The Dr. told us not to have heated conversaitons, and to each have a personal space to go to when we feel frustrated or need to relax. Now that we did, my space seems to be fair game to knock on the door every 10 mins. If I don't cuddle when he wants he views it as rejection, if I want to take a walk then all of a sudden I'm ignoring him, if we're on the couch, he stares at me and when I ask him if there's something to say, he says no. Then, if he starts discussing why I don't want to cuddle, I see the fight coming, so I keep taking ....
2007-10-06
06:46:30
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