Its so different when you are just dating, you just don't recognize certain things about a person. My husband and I,
lived together 3 years before getting married, today we've been together 9 yr, married 6 with 2 boys, 1 and 5. I've considered going to marriage counselling, even went together a few times alone or with him, didn't stick with it for long though, I just quickly pick up on when they don't know what they are talking about. I tried for a while to get along with my husband and although he's not a cheat, we do everything equally, taking care of the boys, housework, he doesn't drink or hang out, just work & back home, I just don't like his personality, he's disorganized, quickly angered and negative about people, he's not easygoing & everything gets to him. He's like a child at times, I have to get at him sometimes so he can get important things done, with good intentions though. Sometimes if he gets stressed out he gets hysterical or have tantrums like a baby.
2007-09-28
05:36:13
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Marriage & Divorce