This is a question that comes up quite a bit in my conversations with students, friends, etc.. I am in the process of doing a lot of soul-searching and re-evaluation of my past relationships. There is a part of me that doesn't want to believe this common belief, but I have to admit that my best relationships in the past have been with men I had no interest in at first, but who enjoyed pouring on the romance and friendshp and getting me to change my mind. On the flip side, I also see this pattern of men either disappearing without explanation or putting a lot of distance between us as soon as I let them know I like them too and want to spend more time with them. I have found this to be esp. true of men in big cities like NYC. What do you think is happening here? If a woman nowdays has to play "hard to get" in order to get a man, then that leaves me out of the game. It goes against my principles or beliefs to lie, hide, evade, manipulate, or play games. Thoughts?
2007-09-27
21:54:12
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Indi
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