I recently got engaged to my fiance. Last night, the question came up about my bachelor party. We both have preconceived notions of what the limits should be. First off, I love my wife to be very much and can't wait to settle down and begin our lives together. Prior to seriously dating her, I lived a fairly wild life and come from a more open background than she does. Her limit is that of "look, but don't touch", where touching is considered cheating. My definition is intercourse or oral. Having been to a strip club before, to me, lap dances are pretty meaningless. Her perception of a strip club is more akin to a brothel. Any attempts to tell her how it really is gets brushed off. How can we discuss this productively? Its not that I feel the need to get a lap dance, but I dont want to be told what I cant do. I want to just be able to confront the issue when it presents itself, and be able say goodbye to that part of my life and move on with her.
2007-09-25
11:25:44
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