My husband and I have been married for 16 yrs. For some reason he only wants to shave about once per week. I have had depression throughout our marriage and I sometimes think he may suffer too, although he would never admit it. My question is, when we go out on Sat night as a family and he hasn't shaved in 6 or 7 days, is it inappropriate for me to ask him to shave? Sometimes he is fine with it, but other times I offend him even though I ask nicely. BTW, despite my depression, I always dress nice when we go out and have my hair fixed pretty and my make-up on. I don't mind a few days unshaved, but 6 to 7 days just seems disrespectful to me. He didn't shave the night before our anniversary either, when we were intimate. I asked him on our anniversary and he did, but I don't know if he would have thought of it if I hadn't asked. Don't get me wrong. I know this problem isn't "huge", I simply want to know if you would choose to bring it up or keep quiet about it. Thanks ladies.
2007-09-24
19:00:58
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ShineOn
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Marriage & Divorce