I have a lot of concerns, here are just a few:
I feel my son has a right to know, but I hate to think that he'll not think of me as his father. I'm scared that he'll want to meet his dad and then I'm fearful that his biological dad will want some level of custody or visitation.
If I don't my son, I know its possible that he'll find out at some point by accident - when I can't provide blood, organ, etc, who knows but I can't imagine how upset I would be to find out that my dad has been lying to me all my life - I can't have my son hate me for that.
what are the legal issues? If the table was turned, I would be very upset if I had a son and didnt even know about it. what rights do biological fathers have if they haven't been around for the 1st 10years, even if they didn't know.
what if there are genetic health issues that we should know about?
I love my son and I will never be able to think of him any different than my son. But, because I love him, I want to do what is right
2007-09-21
04:02:22
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David J
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Marriage & Divorce