I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years. I am 31, he will be 33 in couple of weeks. We have been talking about marriage for what seems like forever now, he being the one who first brought up the subject. We talked about everything, where it would be, what we wanted, where we would live afterwards, how many kids we wanted and what their names would be. We even talked about a timeline. We both agreed that we want to start having kids by the time I am 35 and we want to be married for 2 years before we start having kids. He wants a Catholic wedding, they take a little longer to plan. Most you can't pick a date earlier than 6 months. I want a year to plan. We went to 2 different places to look at rings and picked one out, but now he says he's not ready. He says someday he'll be ready. I will be 32 in 5 months and I am READY! I've told him I won't wait forever, but I have no idea what to do now. He thinks I should just wait indefinitely. I feel misguided. What do I do?
2007-09-21
04:04:32
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ebert_mn
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Marriage & Divorce