About a month ago, I started dating this guy. We hit it off immediately. He's sweet, smart, funny, nerdy, mature, and cute. Why on Earth would I have a problem?
Well, as things have become more serious, he's become much...um...mushier. Instead of getting along like before (talking, laughing, relating), almost everything he talks about relates to "us." How much he likes me, how happy he is, how much he can't wait to see me next. And always with the cuddling!
Okay, I know. I sound like a complete ingrate for even asking this. But it's not as if I don't like him; I like him very much. Believe me: I hate that this makes me so uncomfortable. It's just that all this over-sweetness and super-closeness is kind of stifling.
So is this just something that comes with a new relationship? Will he back off a little and go back to normal once the "newness" wears off? If I know that we can get back to relating like we did in the beginning (without so much mush), I'll be the happiest girl in town.
2007-09-12
17:48:58
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