All categories - 5 September 2007

So i'm 21 years old, got married whe i was 18. He went to the Military and asked me to marry him and i was supposed to go live with him, well, i never did. So now he's finally home from his 4 years of active duty and we are finally living together for the first time and we've been married for 3 1/2 years. We dont have anything in common (he drinks, i dont, he bowls, i dont, he LOVES sports, i hate them), we never really have conversations and when i try to have alone time with him (go out to eat) all we do is argue. Please, i dont want to waist my life away being in a failing marriage, what should we do?

2007-09-05 08:29:08 · 20 answers · asked by Curious Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I paid an attorney to represent me in a case. She was paid $1500 simply to move my child support case from Illinois to missouri. She filed the paperwork and that was it. this is rediculous that it costs $1500 to file some paperwork. How can I get my money back? He was never served with papers, we never went to court, nothing.

2007-09-05 08:28:53 · 8 answers · asked by Sherry M 3 in Law & Ethics

ok so me and my mom have always wanted a cat, i personally have wanted one since i was little now im 14 and i asked again and she said it was up to my dad but here is the catch my dad doesnt like cats one bit. so since he doesnt like them and thats the only reason im not allowed to have a cat.I know this doesnt rally matter to my problem but my friend just got a cat and her dad doesnt like them but once they got a cat he loves them. so how can i convince my dad that cats arent "evil"?

2007-09-05 08:28:50 · 7 answers · asked by cute is what i aim for 2 in Cats

2007-09-05 08:28:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Philosophy

on cyber cafe vewing **** site is stictly band, is it is band vewing on PC

2007-09-05 08:28:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Law & Ethics

If so, please email me with some proof of credibility. I need some advice. Thanks so much!

2007-09-05 08:28:40 · 5 answers · asked by Lady G 6 in United States

2007-09-05 08:28:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Biology

Girls, what do you prefer?

2007-09-05 08:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Beauty & Style

I almost have 500 stars and I was wondering if that is enough for the plasma flat screen tv, or do I still need more stars? lol ;-) Thanks for all answers. You are too kind!

2007-09-05 08:28:22 · 7 answers · asked by Angel of Death says F-IT! 6 in Polls & Surveys

Is something missing when your man doesnt cross the finish line?

2007-09-05 08:28:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-05 08:28:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

okay yall probably get where im coming from if not well here it is!!!! i have been single for about one month now but its getting very hard i cant stand to be alone .,....., any advice at all would help

2007-09-05 08:28:18 · 1 answers · asked by slitter 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-05 08:28:18 · 1 answers · asked by Iesto 3 in Portugal

I have drafted Minnesota Vikings Defense who should be a top five defense this year and also San Diego Chargers Defense which will be outstanding as well. I'm having trouble deciding which one to start and need help choosing.

Minnesota is playing the Vickless/Joey Harrington led Falcons who is guaranteed to throw at least one pick...and on the other hand the Chargers are playing the Rex Grossman led Bears at home. Grossman is hit or miss...could throw for 300 yards and 3 TDs or he could throw for 123 yards with 2 fumbles and 3 INTs. Someone please help me pick one...

2007-09-05 08:28:16 · 7 answers · asked by Eric L 2 in Fantasy Sports

I'm pregnant with my first child and have 4 cats. I have been around cats ALL my life. If I hear one more ignorant a*s*s* tell me I MUST NOT clean cat litter pans or I MUST get rid of my cats because they will hurt a baby I will just scream!!! How do I educate people to the realities of life with cats???

TRUTH: people who have been around cats or who do gardening have been exposed to soil-borne illness (toxoplasmosis) and have antibodies. There is little to 0 risk in handling cats or litter boxes. Still paranoid? Wear gloves.

TRUTH: cats do NOT steal babies' breath or sit on babies' faces or smother babies to get at the milk. Anyone concerned ever hear of a closed door?

PLEASE folks help me combat the stupidity. My co-workers and even some people I called friends seem appalled that I am keeping my cats!!!

2007-09-05 08:27:47 · 29 answers · asked by howldine 6 in Cats

and how well is it doing?!

2007-09-05 08:27:47 · 11 answers · asked by Melissa C 1 in Ford

so god puts all these rules and if you dont follow them you get punished. but he even takes it a bit further and makes the worst rule to break is to deny him. isnt that a little egotistical. what are your comments.

2007-09-05 08:27:46 · 8 answers · asked by Julian G 1 in Philosophy

Today when I was opening the mail for my co-workers, I noticed a client had returned some forms they'd needed to sign with a pamphlet about God and salvation. Honestly, even though I'm a Christian, I kind of thought it was a little rude because the co-worker who this client's little "information packet" was addressed to practices another religion (I'm not too sure which one, but it certainly isn't Christianity; she does belong to a different religion, though).

Would you consider something like this rude? Or just a good samaritan spreading the word?

(Just wondering other people's thoughts =D)

2007-09-05 08:27:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Etiquette

I know that you are opposed to getting blood and blood products. If there is a doctor who is a JW, will they order blood or blood products for their patients, or would this go against your religious beliefs? I don't mean this to sound like I'm trying to be rude, I'm not. I'm really curious about this.

2007-09-05 08:27:34 · 4 answers · asked by odd duck 6 in Religion & Spirituality

2007-09-05 08:27:33 · 1 answers · asked by notmygame 6 in Mathematics

2007-09-05 08:27:23 · 6 answers · asked by shelly_n_ste_kitson 1 in Monitors

A) Dr. Zhivago
B) Dr. Not
C) Dr. No
D) Dr. Kildare

2007-09-05 08:27:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Trivia

I see these Maury-esque cases where some guy is told "you're the father" and he steps up to what he thinks are his responsibilities. Sometimes it's a husband who doesn't know his wife is stepping out on him, sometimes it's a boyfriend who thought things were "exclusive," sometimes it's just some gullible geek who only got lucky because the girl already knew she was "with child" and wanted to pin it on him.

How about a straight-up requirement: Dad's name doesn't go on the birth certificate unless a DNA test is done.

We could even throw in an exception: If the man, after being advised BY A LAWYER, knowingly signs a waiver saying that he is the legal father and waives the right to verify the child's parentage via DNA.

No surprises, no GOTCHA, just see what the DNA says.

2007-09-05 08:27:18 · 7 answers · asked by Bill 6 in Law & Ethics

CONCORD, N.H.—If Presidential hopeful Tom Tancredo had his way, New Hampshire lawmakers behind an immigration bill would be thrown out of office and prosecuted for helping illegal immigrants. "If they actually implemented it, you bet. It's aiding and abetting. I think that's a pretty clear violation of the federal law," he said Wednesday of the bill, which would prohibit state and local authorities from enforcing federal immigration laws.

Tancredo, a Colorado congressman who has staked his long-shot campaign for president on his vehement opposition to illegal immigration, acknowledged some legal obstacles likely would prevent prosecuting state lawmakers over proposed legislation. Otherwise, "I'd be more than willing to pursue it," he said. Mayors and city councilors who adopt sanctuary city policies also should face criminal charges, he said.

Tancredo supports building a fence along the border with Mexico and strictly enforcing existing immigration laws, including deporting all illegal immigrants.

Visiting Concord ahead of an evening debate of Republican presidential candidates at the University of New Hampshire, Tancredo dove into state politics, demanding the ouster of the bill's sponsors—Democrats Lily Mesa of Manchester and Susi Nord of Candia—though he did not mention them by name. He also urged Gov. John Lynch, a Democrat, to speak out against the bill.

"It is a terrible idea and we need the governor to say something about it, for instance, 'I will veto any attempt to make New Hampshire a sanctuary state,'" Tancredo said.
http://origin.denverpost.com/rapids/ci_6806795

He's the only politician, I believe, who is NOT giving lip-service to this issue. GO TOM!!!

2007-09-05 08:27:14 · 13 answers · asked by Untied States Of Latina 2 in Immigration

Periodically, the steering wheel will get stuck; especially when making a hard turn in either direction. I am suspecting something in the steering column is at fault or possibly the gearbox. The gearbox is slightly over a year old. I recently installed new idler arms and strut rod bushings, and got the mandatory alignment. Any help as to the cause would be helpful. Thanks in advance.

2007-09-05 08:26:55 · 1 answers · asked by kontrolfreak66 6 in Maintenance & Repairs

2007-09-05 08:26:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Government

I cheer for University of Carolina and our biggest rival is Clemson. They are orange and purple and their mascot is a tiger. Our colors are black and garnet and our mascot is a gamecock. We usually lose but we are getting way better and we beat them last year for the first time in a long time. Of course we get made fun of all the time such as: 100 years of chickin kicking' we are called chickens, and all that stuff and since they are tigers and they are better they have lots of things that they can make fun of us for. The only thing i can think of is that Clemson was started on a farm. I need a really good comeback.

2007-09-05 08:26:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Football (American)

What's up with masculine tomboy women trying to be like Steve-O or Johnny Knoxville.

http://shizzville.com/wax-beaver

This is disgusting and very unlady-like. The women even refer to each other as "man" and "dude".

Is this an example of Penis Envy at its finest?

Is this a result of feminism's attempts at masculinizing women (as it feminizes men)?

2007-09-05 08:26:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

How many miles did you have on the bike? Was it a crash?

2007-09-05 08:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by christian_cyclist 2 in Cycling

2007-09-05 08:26:45 · 2 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Other - Advertising & Marketing