Both my parents are deceased, leaving only my stepmother who has not been on speaking terms with me for almost a year. I saw her at a family gathering and she is still the spiteful woman I always knew. She assumed my fiance has no job and bought my own ring, to the point she told my uncles this. I feel inviting her is asking for trouble, however not inviting her might prove another problem as I do not want to hurt anyone or be questioned as to where she is that day. Long story short, she has not wanted my father's children. She has not treated us well and we are at the point that we decided we do not need to be in contact with her. Honestly, my life's been better this way. Is it proper to invite her? I'd plan on not sitting her at the family table. She also does not respect my deceased mother - oh the drama she's caused if I only had more room to explain. Does she have to be invited in the sense of ettiquette? Please help.
2007-08-29
09:38:44
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