Hi!
So my question is: what are your opinions on being engaged at 20, whilst both partners are still studying?
My boyfriend & I have been together for a little over four years & as cliche as it may sound, know that we're 'the one' for each other. We want to get engaged soon & have a really long engagement because we want to be financially stable before we get married (finished uni, working full time, paying off a mortage & so on). Our belief is that getting engaged requires being emotionally committed & that financial stability isn't essential to get engaged - whereas it's definately essential for marriage.
We have a great relationship & our engagement will be a promise of commitment to each other, which is something we both want to do; do you think it is important to wait until we're financially set-up to do so?
What are your thoughts?
I'd really appreciate your input & opinions, but please - no snide remarks/unhelpful comments.
Thank you! :-)
2007-08-16
17:12:40
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