I was married for 6 years. I had a hard time losing weight I had gained (mostly because my husband wanted 2 eat out, order pizza & sit at B&N whenever we had free time together), then yearly, would bring up my weight . he even had called me a fat ***** a few times. I wanted a divorce, but wasn't sure if it was reason enough 2 go back on my vows. I didn't want 2 just end it, but was sick of being put down & feeling like **** all the time. Well, this past February, on his own, he told me my life was F*d up, I was a sad person &the only reason he stayed with me is cuz he felt sorry 4 me THEN told me that if I wasn't going 2 ask (practically beg him) 2 stay, that I would have 2 file.
I moved out, got a new job and filed. My divorce doesn't finalize until Sept, but already I met someone who is genuinely interested in me and wants to be with me. I was kinda looking forward to singlehood, but he's everything I had been hoping for. Is it too soon to get attached if I'm really happy w/ him?
2007-07-29
18:32:12
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