I am currently getting marriage counselling. The counselling sessions seem to draw me to a conclusion I should leave my wife.
I got married really young, I am very different to my wife, I have fallen for another woman (but not pursued that physically), I wish my wife was a different type of person - she could be more confident, ambitious, outgoing. I am sick of spending nights at home and not out.
The other side of it is that my wife is a great person. She is loyal and loving.
She doesnt want our marriage to end despite me telling her how I feel about this other woman.
I am now 35. My wife is 30 and tells me that if I leave her I have ruined her life. She feels she is too old to meet a new guy and remarry and have kids. She feels she will be a lonely spinster.
This lack of self confidence is one of the things I really dont like about her.
She believes committment is a choice. A choice I made when we got married and I am obligated to stay with her.
2007-07-28
22:23:11
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Stone Heart
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