Been married for almost 14 yrs, 3 kids. We were only married one yr when baby Number 1 came along. We are just completely different people, in our wants, our values, our long term goals. We do not agree on anything, from discipline to money, to what our retirement holds. Our future goals are completely opposite. He is not wrong, but I am not wrong either. He is a good person, and I am a good person. We are just two people who probably shouldnt have never gotten married. We live like roommates. He helps with the kids. Once the last kid is in bed, we go our separate ways. He goes to his tv to watch his "shows". I usually end up bed, watching the news or something until I fall asleep. The only time he comes to bed with me is to have sex. Its hard to have sex when you are not emotionally connected to somebody.
I really just dont want to be married. I dont want to be married to anybody else, I dont want to date, or a boyfriend. I just want to live alone with my kids.Y is this wrong???
2007-07-23
03:24:48
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Jackie
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Marriage & Divorce