sometimes i do then i have to step back and realize i need to not push myself as much. good luck.
2007-07-23 03:27:24
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends on the situation, I guess--I had high expectations for my children because I felt that if I did, they'd at least accomplish something, whereas if I had no expectations they'd probably live down to them (a situation that proved to be fairly accurate, since they're all at least working or doing something constructive).
A female thing? I don't know if I'd label it that way--most of the men I've known have also had pretty lofty expectations, too.
Maybe it's just a human thing. We always hope for more than we often end up getting (or so it seems), and how we react to the disappointment is crucial. We can let ourselves become embittered and angry at the nearly constant failure of our expectations, or we can just accept that nothing in life is going to be perfect and get on as we can.
I've chosen the latter course, and it's worked pretty well for me.
2007-07-23 10:36:59
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answered by Chrispy 7
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No, all I expect is to be treated like a human being. I wasn't treated very well by one person, and that hurt! People need to be nicer to each other in general.
2007-07-23 10:27:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, but I was told something once that really stuck with me: Make your expectations high because people will always give you less than that!
2007-07-23 10:33:36
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answered by Sunshine 6
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Maiden, I don't think it's a female only thing, men have it too, Jimmy.
2007-07-23 18:32:29
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answered by Jimmy 6
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ive found that lowered expectations make life more acceptable for me.
2007-07-23 10:28:46
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answered by ooooooooooooo 6
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Nope and I am a female.
2007-07-23 10:28:07
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answered by Anonymous
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I demand excellance from myself, it is the only control I have.
2007-07-23 10:42:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Yep, and it sad when the bubble gets busted !
2007-07-23 10:28:52
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answered by wHaT eVeR 7
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If you don't set them high you only achieve mediocrity.
2007-07-23 11:18:44
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answered by Anonymous
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