All categories - 18 July 2007

I'm sort of overwhelmed right now. I'm 32 weeks pregnant with my first baby, a little boy, and up until now the plan was for my partner to work 50-60 hour weeks so that I could stay home, avoiding childcare expenses and allowing me to take care of my own baby.

Tonight, though, he said that he plans to go back to school in August and cut down to 40 hours a week. I'm all for him furthering his education, but we'll barely get our bills paid on 40 hours a week, so I'll have to go to work. Which is fine, except all the jobs I could get would leave me with $200 a month after childcare and taxes. My mom could babysit, but only after 5, which rules out most jobs. And school starts in August and I won't be able to work till November.

What would you do? Suck it up for two years while he earns his degree? Ask him to wait till NEXT semester so I can get settled in with baby and a job? Find an at-home job? Of course I'll discuss it with him but he's at work and I wanted opinions NOW.

2007-07-18 20:13:07 · 6 answers · asked by grayhare 6 in Pregnancy

yes, another pop related, see how can make me laugh, but the right answer wins type question!

2007-07-18 20:12:45 · 7 answers · asked by Spark of Insanity 7 in Polls & Surveys

2007-07-18 20:11:42 · 11 answers · asked by 24_KaY 1 in Maintenance & Repairs

Ok what does it mean to have two counts of the same crime? or 3 or so on. does that mean you did the same crime twice in one sitting or what does that mean? like two counts of possesing a firearm for example, i dont own a gun so dont start freaking out on me i am just trying to read up on legal terms.

2007-07-18 20:11:37 · 3 answers · asked by J 2 in Law Enforcement & Police

im 21 and my husband is 44. and hes scolding me just like a little girl. how will i react? im hurt...

2007-07-18 20:11:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know you can't know all,but tell me through your lifetime what does the world have to offer?

2007-07-18 20:11:09 · 14 answers · asked by Life goes on... 6 in Philosophy

Can you love your wife with all your heart and still cheat? I don't get it! My husband was cheating, writing emails to another woman telling her he loved her and he wanted her to move to the states with him (from Germany). I found the emails and that same day I got a plane ticket and left his ***. Now he wants me back! I don't understand why men would risk losing a family, a home.

2007-07-18 20:10:47 · 10 answers · asked by * lovemykids * 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Dear Christians:
I do understand your zeal. It makes sense to want to win souls for Jesus, if not for the sinners sake then for your own, but is this what God instructed us to do?

If you’ll remember God instructed us to:
Seek first the kingdom of heaven – a personal mission.
Love God - a personal mission.
Love all humans - a personal mission.

Remember 2000 years ago everyone and I mean everyone were Theist.
Most of them got no more results from prayer to their gods than if they had prayed to… a jug of milk.

So if you had a better phenomenology (explanation for things that happened) then you were a rock star. They didn’t have much entertainment back then so the people came asking real questions and were receptive to the concepts of Christ.

All that stuff about not casting pearls before swine was a message to YOU today because you think of non-Christians as lower than you, swine as it were.

2007-07-18 20:10:26 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Gnostic♥ 4 in Religion & Spirituality

When you have a "Near Death" experience, does Death have a "Near You" experience?

2007-07-18 20:10:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

I got my Yahoo light bulb in the mail today and it was broken. Do you think they will exchange it at Wal-Mart? Hey, don't laugh. . . . .mone is money and I am short on it currently.

2007-07-18 20:10:00 · 8 answers · asked by icunurse85 7 in Polls & Surveys

2007-07-18 20:09:58 · 7 answers · asked by Tamara M 1 in Other - Business & Finance

When you die you are judged and sent to heaven, limbo or hell. This is according to the doctrines of all Christendom and it's sub-groups.

If you are judged 'good' enough to make it into heaven -what do you expect from it? What do you expect to happen for eternity?

What *IS* Heaven to you?

2007-07-18 20:09:49 · 6 answers · asked by shadowrench 3 in Religion & Spirituality

How can the Judge ORDER them to reach a specific verdict?
I thought the whole point of a jury was that THEY decide the final verdict, so what is the point of having a jury when the Judge can order what they like anyway?

A case I just heard on the radio is being concluded with the Judge telling the jury NOT to find her guilty..
My husband is about to do jury service but if the Judge overrides the jury's decision, why bother?
I don't understand.
How does it all work?

2007-07-18 20:09:37 · 5 answers · asked by Welshdragon 5 in Law & Ethics

My son got above console from my x husband - dont know where he bought it from. Recently i bought a replacement controller on ebay as his other one broke.

However it does not fit - it has round attachment rather than uxb . i phoned micfrosoft but they say his console is a japanesse model.

My query is - if i go and buy a controller today in UK shops will it fit and if i get wireless one will it work. I dont want to waste anyone money and need it desperately.

2007-07-18 20:09:17 · 3 answers · asked by sunnyday 1 in Video & Online Games

it goes:

i dont want to be stuck in the city, with the cars and people downtown....

thats all i know:(

and it has like a country feel to it, and a guy sings it:)

and it was also on the season finale of the simple life season 2: road trip....


PLEASE HELP!!!


luv that song


thanx


:)

2007-07-18 20:09:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Music

2007-07-18 20:09:06 · 10 answers · asked by the_rattlesnake20032004 1 in Football (American)

I am interested in Theology and would like to know if anybody has researched on the whereabouts of Hell

2007-07-18 20:09:01 · 16 answers · asked by EliK 1 in Religion & Spirituality

Do animals go to Heaven as well as humans? I have a soft spot for the animals and they deserve just as much respect as humans do, in Heaven I would love to be able to communicate with the animals.

2007-07-18 20:08:52 · 12 answers · asked by Fell In Love 7 in Religion & Spirituality

can anyone help me with lupins,when do i take the seeds off the plant and how do i store them?

2007-07-18 20:08:40 · 5 answers · asked by moibingtaz 2 in Garden & Landscape

Why not, isn't speed esp thrilling for 18-25yr olds and everyone likes to have a super quick journey? Your serious thoughts are welcomed.

2007-07-18 20:08:09 · 6 answers · asked by Dolphin-Bird Lover8-88 7 in Rail

2007-07-18 20:07:49 · 2 answers · asked by Marlon L 1 in Other - Business & Finance

It appears everyone failed to see my point in the last question i asked, Can someone have the free will to change a pre-determined fate....If yes then there was no pre-determined fate, and if no then there is no "complete" free will....

2007-07-18 20:07:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Philosophy

In a bad way?

2007-07-18 20:07:18 · 6 answers · asked by ThisSongsForYou 2 in Polls & Surveys

Here's the situation, my 3 1/2 week old kitten fell to the floor from sitting on my lap. I say it was a foot or so worth of falling from my lap to the hardwood floor. After she fell, she was moving her head as if she were gagging and moving on her side as if she was having a seizure of some sort. That lasted for 2 minutes. After that, she had a very blank stare and barely meowed, she just mewed. I am worried, as I have never had this happen to me before. She is sleeping now....do I still need to wake her up for her normal feeding, or let her sleep. Please help! I am taking her to the vet on Friday morning.

2007-07-18 20:06:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cats

Someone recommended it to me to help with digestive upset after doing an olive oil and lemon juice "cleanse" for gallstones.

I'm just wondering, what is a "colonic"?

Thanks :-)

2007-07-18 20:06:12 · 6 answers · asked by MumOf5 6 in Alternative Medicine

My mouse constantly scratches, to the point where she is bleeding. I don't know what to do! I feel so bad for her. I haven't changed the type of bedding she uses, so i don't think it's that. I was thinking maybe mites, but I don't see anything on her. Can you see mites? Please help!

2007-07-18 20:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by beezy3 3 in Rodents

but i want it to include alaska in it because that is where i live

2007-07-18 20:05:47 · 13 answers · asked by ssmariners11 2 in Baseball

what? Who?

2007-07-18 20:05:16 · 18 answers · asked by Piggy 6 in Polls & Surveys

honestly, one of the reasons that pilgrims came to the thirteen colonies(now the us) was for religious freedom. when europe was ruled by the church people got killed left and right for stupid things that ultimately never really mattered. also look at the salem witch trials where a lot of innocent people got killed for stupid things. and Im pretty sure that if the founding fathers didnt wanna mix religion with the constitution it was for a reason, although for some reason we have the bible in the courtroom before witnesses speak. also we've already gone to war for things that dont deal with religion, if the govnt was run by the church wed probably be in so many religious wars that wed be in even more debt

Id give more details but youll just B!TC# that its too long. so please lets leave religion out of government.

2007-07-18 20:04:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

other than brushing the teeth of course

2007-07-18 20:04:52 · 21 answers · asked by rachael 1 in Dental