hello,
we received a letter today stating that my husband of 3 years had a daughter with the author of the letter. She doesn't know for sure if my husband is the father; she presumed it was another guy, who was paying child support and helping her for 17 years. He did a DNA test and found out he is not the father. this woman thinks my husband could be the father ( they had a brief affair, pretty much a one night stand 17 years ago). My husband is willing to take the DNA test. I am so TORN and hurt, and confused. I feel cheated although I only met him 3 years ago, and God knows I had no way of knowing I will marry him 17 years ago. we didn't even live in the same country. Anyway....I am just trying to cope. I feel like I had a great and happy life with him, and all of a sudden it is being changed for worse. Is there any mature and Christian way to deal with these emotions? I am just hurt and sad...
2007-07-07
18:21:27
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