I never went through marriage counseling, my husband and I just went twice in our 9 yrs together, and we've had problems for about 9 yrs. I know, we should never have gotten married,
we're suffering for that mistake now. Has anyone reached the point in their marriage where they've had enough, felt completely turned off and pretty much disgust for the other person and it actually turned around? I feel that way now. We are actually separated as of today, I asked him to leave and honestly the only thing I feel bad about is that we have 2 children, 5 yrs old and 18 mos. old. I know I should of known better he's always been a problem from the beginning, but we
can't stop fighting and I don't want the children to grow up like that. But I'm curious about counselling, everyone always recommends it. It seems that everyone thinks a marriage can be saved as long as there's no cheating or hitting, but that's not the only way that someone can hurt you or the only thing that can make you sick.
2007-07-07
08:14:34
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